I've been doing some thinking lately, and if I am ever fortunate enough to have a child, I think I am going to have my tubes tied afterward. I absolutely cannot take the heartache of BFN after BFN ever again. If I could just have one little miracle, I'd give up ever trying for more. One would be fully enough for me. I'm feeling really discouraged lately.
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Re: One and done
TTC since 2007
6 IUIs, 3 IVFs, and 2 m/c :< PCOS, Blood Clotting Disorder & MFI
IVF #2 Aug 2011 is a BFN:<
IVF #3 March 2012 is a BFN
Not sure what to do now. Sad and lost.
I can totally understand where you are coming from as well. When you have to go through all the proceedures we do...when and if I can get pregnant I will appreciate all of lifes up and downs with our family...I definately do not want take anything for granted.
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I admire those of you who can make that decision for yourself and be at peace with it. I just don't think I could voluntarily do that. I am an only child and HATED it. I always was so envious of my friends because they all had brothers and sisters. If one is all we can have, I will come to terms with it (I am lucky that I do have a stepdaughter, so any child DH and I have together will have a half-sister already)...but I think I really want to try for more than one. At this point, though, I will be so thankful to get one....I guess we will have to make that decision when the time comes.
To those of you who have made the decision...good luck getting your one miracle....I hope you get your LO very soon!
Marrisa
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