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FB related: Some people are just so tacky.

A friend changed her rsvp to Emily's party saying they couldn't come after all. Today, I saw the reason. She posted that they're attending a different party at the same venue right after ours.  The least she could have done was not make it completely, totally obvious why she snubbed our party. So rude, right?

I'm not under the impression that someone HAS to come to something just because we invite them. If they have things they'd rather do instead, cool! Enjoy yourself! But maybe try to not needlessly hurt my feelings by making it apparent you chose to do THE EXACT SAME THING with someone else instead.

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Re: FB related: Some people are just so tacky.

  • wow, that sucks!
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  • That IS rude. Obviously your FB friends.

     I don't think you're being sensitive... I would be p*ssed.

  • So not cool I'd be super pissed.
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  • I would respond with, "You will be missed at our party. I hope you have a great time!"

    Actually, I probably wouldn't respond with that. Somehow I think people do not realize who reads their FB crap. Maybe just respond with, "Have a great time!" When she sees a response from you, maybe she'll get it.

  • She'd be off my invite list for sure next year.  Is this a good friend?  That is rude. 

     

     

  • that is so horrible=(  Sh*t like that really burns my buns.  Maybe I am petty, but I wouldn't invite her to my events again.  I don't do "on their terms" friendships. 

    Sorry, Ev!  She will miss out on a great time!

  • imageemilykristene2006:

    just respond with, "Have a great time!" When she sees a response from you, maybe she'll get it.

    This!  That sucks! 

    If it is at the same venue why couldn't she go to both?  Not sure where you are having it.

  • that is really rude! sorry :-(
  • I don't understand why she can't go to both parties.  Either way, that's incredibly rude.  And why does she need to announce to her FB friends that she's going to some kid's party?  That's weird.  
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  • Ouch!  Sorry.
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  • That sucks Ev. I'd be upset too.
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  • Can I just say that breezee's buns being burned by this made my LOL?

    Totally rude, though. So thoughtless. Wow.

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    Alex (11/14/06) and Nate (5/25/10)
    "Want what you have, do what you can, be who you are." - Rev. Forrest Church
  • Oh my, how incredibly rude!

    Not that she posted it on FB, though that's rude as well, but that she changed her response to your party because "something better -albeit the same- came along".  I'm of the mind that whatever invite you get first and already SAID you'd go to, you go.

    I'm sorry.  So sorry, your little girl deserves better friends.  So do you.

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    Me with my littlest.
  • Also, if you were closer, I'd come and bring all of my friends.  Full house!
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    Me with my littlest.
  • That's like having boss and coworkers as friends or other people that know know them and bragging about "calling in sick" to the office.  Tool.
  • imagefemmegem:

    Can I just say that breezee's buns being burned by this made my LOL?

    Totally rude, though. So thoughtless. Wow.

    Big Smile

    I am glad to have made you laugh!

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