WWYD?

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MrsStubbs

I would stay out if it were me.

Jodi&Joe

I would want to say something as I think she deserves to know HOWEVER, unless you are willing to lose her as a friend, I wouldn't say anything.  The saying "Don't shoot the messenger!" exists for a reason.

And I am of the mindset that really, about 75% of women KNOW their husbands are cheating....they are just ignoring it.  Having it brought to the forefront is NOT what they want.  They'd rather bury their head in the sand and not have to deal with it at all.

aprilmomtobe

I would only tell my BFF is I knew for certain or if the intel was very, very reliable.  I take the approach that if she knew, and didn't tell me, it would be a double betrayal.

penguingrrl

I would stay far away from that one.  Sounds like it could be just a rumor to start trouble.

veloelle

Ditto Jodi. she might already know and is in denial, staying w/ him for the kids, etc. In any case, that's a shittty situation. A friend was cheated on numerous times; she knew & stayed fir the kids.

hopefulmom

I would stay out of it.  Sounds like a very immature couple...you are referring to them as "girls" instead of women.

aprilmomtobe

hopefulmom:

I would stay out of it.  Sounds like a very immature couple...you are referring to them as "girls" instead of women.

?  So since the OP used the word "girls", that means the couple is immature? And since they are immature, she shouldn't tell the wife?

sounds like fuzzy math to me.