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how do you keep yourself from going nuts

ERICA21779ERICA21779
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on a break cycle!!??   All I can think about is how frustrating it is that so much time is being wasted and there is nothing I can do about it!   But then the other part of me is thinking, what do the doctors know.............maybe Im just going to O late and that's why my follies haven't shown any sign of growing and I should plan to do things on my own this month???   Feel free to tell me Im being nuts!!  :)
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    MrsT1209MrsT1209 member
    It's hard.  I've had the 2 months of my surgery and healing off and then now on the birth control pills to shrink the cysts.  I just keep trying to remind myself that it's only a short time out of the grand scheme of things and it could be longer if i wasn't getting the proper treatment done.
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    AmandaMacDAmandaMacD member
    It is so hard!!!  The thing I like about off months is the spontaneity of sex.  Sex on command gets old, so doing it just for fun is a huge relief.  
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    imageAmandaMacD:
    It is so hard!!!  The thing I like about off months is the spontaneity of sex.  Sex on command gets old, so doing it just for fun is a huge relief.  

    Absolutely!!! It's nice to not have to have sex when we're mad at each other just because I'm ovulating!

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    ERICA21779ERICA21779
    you're certainly right, I mean what's a month anyway......that is the sane me talking!   Im just feeling weird not looking forward to poas because there's no point to it this month and I know I need to get out of that frame of mind and concentrate on the positive......and stop dwelling on things I can't change.
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    imageMrsT1209:

    imageAmandaMacD:
    It is so hard!!!  The thing I like about off months is the spontaneity of sex.  Sex on command gets old, so doing it just for fun is a huge relief.  

    Absolutely!!! It's nice to not have to have sex when we're mad at each other just because I'm ovulating!

     
    isn't that the truth!
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    MrsT1209MrsT1209 member

    imageERICA21779:
    you're certainly right, I mean what's a month anyway......that is the sane me talking!   Im just feeling weird not looking forward to poas because there's no point to it this month and I know I need to get out of that frame of mind and concentrate on the positive......and stop dwelling on things I can't change.

    I felt that way at first but you know what? Last month when I knew I had an incredibly weak ovulation, the temptation to POAS was zilch.  And God was that ever freeing.  Knowing that I wasn't peeing away wasted money was awesome.

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    VAL215VAL215 member
    I always *try* to keep in mind that it will happen when it's supposed to.  It never hurts to try on your break cycle....you never know!  And...no you're not nuts...just normal.
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    waiting sucks :(  Stay real busy and get projects accomplished.
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    hoping4morehoping4more member

    I'm currently on a break cycle (well now on a suppressant but still) and it is/was very hard. 

    I do really enjoy the spontaneous sex!! I also enjoy the feeling good. I usually feel crappy on all the meds I am on. 

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