DH turning gay?

sarahjared

Ok so I just read an article in which some woman swore her DH was turning gay and that is why she divorced him.  The reason she thought he was turning gay was because he wanted her to wear a strap on and give it to him from behind.  The article had comments with it about was he just being sexually adventurous (sp?) or was he really turning gay.

I'm not sure what I would think if I was put in that situation.  Hopefully I don't ever have to find out!

Discuss.  What do you think-turning gay or not?

FriskyPanda

I don't think people "turn" gay.  I also don't believe that people have to be categorized into gay or straight. 

If my DH wanted me to put on a strap on and give it to him from behind, I would have some questions for him since it would come from out of the blue,  but I don't think I'd run to a lawyer and file for divorce unless I was already looking for a way to get out of the marriage without it being my fault.

ToledoDeux

Is this a joke?

a) you don't "turn" gay.

b) do you think only gay men enjoy anal sex?

sarahjared

I don't think people 'turn' gay.  That was what the article said.  I just think it would be a shock for a DH to say that out of the blue.

rach0528

I don't think people turn gay either, but there are both men and women who repress their sexuality for a multitude of reasons (religons, society, ect). I know of quite a few men who "came out" much later in life after they already had children with their spouse.  I guess some men are just scared to come out sooner or just hide their feelings for whatever reason.  I don't know about this particular article or whatever but he could definitely be gay maybe there were some other signs that just weren't commented on.