i *want* to say that my doc gave me the all-clear to go home after 48 hours after her birth, but i'm not sure that i'm remembering that correctly. and i asked to stay as long as they would allow me, bcse i was terrified of going home. this time, i want to come home asap.
i'm trying to remember how it worked after my csection...
i don't remember when they removed the catheter and iv - but i think it was within 12 hours? i think they let me eat after i burped/farted. i remember them wanting to know when i finally pooped.... or was it just went aubrey pooped? i know there were certain things they wanted to see aubrey do by 36 hours, so maybe 48 hours was the release point?
any insight from those with recent csections or better memories than mine is greatly appreciated. ![]()
Re: remind me - how long in hospital after csection?
I was in the hospital for 4 days, but I was REALLY sick for at least 48 hours of that, and I was positively loopy for at least 72 of those hours. My c/s was at 6:20am, my IV was out probably the next day (again I was really sick so I was needing a lot of fluids, etc), and cath was out as soon as I could stand up...sometime that same day.
They didn't care that I pooped. That I remember, anyway.
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yup, me too. They gave me the option of heading home after 3 days, but Ali had just been released from NICU, so we decided to hang out one more night.
Honestly, if you have Aubrey in the care of someone she loves and you trust, I wouldn't push it to go home. I stayed the full recommended amount (3 nights/4 days - c/s was Friday morning, we left Monday afternoon) and I'm very glad I did. I knew as soon as I got home I'd be tempted to push myself to pick up DS, help around the house, etc. But mostly, that time in the hospital with #2 was SUCH good bonding time with her. When we got home I felt much more torn between DS and DD, so I was glad I'd had that time to just focus on DD only and not feel guilty about it since DS was having fun with his grandparents and aunt.
JMO!
(read it. you know you want to.)
anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
Oh Lord, I KNOW. I was so sad the night before my c/s for that reason. I snuck into his room while he was sleeping and just cried over his crib for a few minutes. But honestly, since he was in such great hands, I was able to kind of let go of the missing him and just spend that time focusing on DD. I knew that as a second child, it would be one of the few chances I got to be all alone with her!
It helped having DS come visit. My parents brought him every morning for an hour or so, and it was so so so good to see him and snuggle for a bit. DH would always walk out with them (to avoid a possible tantrum in the room that would make me crazy emotional) but it was never really an issue - he hopped in the car with grandma and grandpa and didn't look back, according to DH!
(read it. you know you want to.)
anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
yeah, i remember that part. it was brutal because i had to fast for like 12 hours before the surgery, then was surprised to learn they wouldn't let me eat after until i burped or farted, and it seemed like forever. at least this time i'll be prepared to starve. :P