Follie check #2...not so good

CharBart

Follie check #2 did not go so well.  Still only 3 follies.  The doctor has suggested that we could change this cycle to an IUI.  It is really our decision though and we have no idea of what we will do.  We could change to IUI and then go for a 3rd IVF or we could continue and do the retrieval for the 3 follies, hope we get 3 mature eggs and then hope that all 3 fertilize.

The other option is do a donor egg cycle if this one doesn't work.  I think that if we get to that point we would go the DE route.  It's just really tough trying to wrap my head around not having a genetic child of my own.  I know that I will get there but today I feel very defeated. 

MAH123

Oh Char, wish I could say something to make you feel better. (((hugs)))

Look at Mrs Kario, the hail marys do work! So don't lose hope!

cfreshyg

Char all you need is ONE good one.

All I could produce were 3 eggs, all 3 matured and all 3 fertilized. Keep the HOPE and FAITH. It is a hard decision to make but trust.

Good luck and I'll be thinking of you.

carrie 

 

Deanne Shehane

Oh Char. Sending hugs! I have a friend who only had three follies for her IVF and she had her baby girl two weeks ago. All I can do is share a good story, wish i could do more. Try not to let it get you down. 

redsoxbono

Oh Char, I'm sorry that you did not get the news you hoped for. I'm sending hugs and support with whatever you decide. Hang in there.

*Chicken*

I'm so sorry Char. I hope that whatever you decide for this cycle it does the trick.

JilliansMoma

Char so sorry to hear but like a pp said all it takes is one.  GL whatever you decide.

karenannmark

Sorry but yes it takes one and im sending lots of love, prayers and baby dust to that little one

baze2

Oh char..

What a tough decision. I know you will make the correct one. I only takes one. Here's hoping those three follies have three brillant eggs.

Hang in there.

rach2100

Sorry to hear that...but I'll echo pp and say that it only takes one!  T&P for you as you make the decision that is right for you all.  GL!!

FrannyS

hang in there, it's not over until it's over.  There are good things to come!

 

mscandyman

I know it's easier said then done, but don't give up hope. 

Hugs and T&Ps

joyfulnature

Dear Char, I am sorry that your follie check didn't go as you hoped.

As everyone else has said, it really does only take one.

And that holds true whether you chose to go through the IVF or convert. You will make the right decision.

Sending you and your follies big hugs, thoughts, prayers.

 

MDBeachbride

Good luck.  I wish the best for you! 

mjencook

Thoughts are with you Char and as many pp have said it takes just one!

Strunella

Oh, I'm sorry the numbers aren't what you were expecting.  Try to be hopeful...no matter what path you and DH decide, it will be the right decision.  Those three could be great, even with an IUI.  And, "you just never know."  (I think that's going to be my mantra!)

OscarQ

Oh Char - I'm sorry.  That is a tough decision and the prospect of the DE route, well that one would take anyone some time to process.

09Bride03

I'm sorry you didn't get the results you were hoping for!  Keeping you in my prayers!

stever

I'm sorry you didn't get the results you wanted but, as other ladies have said, you just need one!

sadie sadie

. I wish there was an easy answer for you.  GL in whatever decisions you make.

rabstbmom

Keep your chin up! Hope everything works out.

izzourclue

I am sorry Char.  Using a donor egg or sperm would be a tough decision for anyone, but thank God there are people out there willing to donate so loving couples can have babies.  I am sure you will come to a good decision.  Good luck.

JillAly

I know it's not the result you wanted but don't give up hope.  I did IVF and only had 3 follies each time.  I got pregnant both times.  They actually got 4 mature eggs and 7 mature eggs with those 3 follies each time. 

I will also tell you that I only had 2 follies for the longest time on my last IVF (current pregnancy).  They were going to cancel but at age 42, they said it wouldn't get any better so I could go forward if I wanted.  On the day of the retrieval when they went to do the scan, the 3rd follie showed up.  So sometimes they just take longer to pop up.  That's when they got the 7 eggs- the most I ever got since I don't respond well.  So just wait and see how it goes- you never know.  It really only does take one.

Good luck!!!  I'll be thinking of you.

Lucky&Lola

Oh Char, you've been at this almost as long as I have so I know how hard it is.  I'm not gonna tell you all the stuff that people tell us, only that you're not alone.  I'll pray that you make the right decision. 

LizzyB11

I'm sorry that you're going through this. I can't imagine trying to decide what to do right in the middle of the cycle. Keep us posted on your status. ::hugs::

iluvtom

I had 3 follies all 3 fertilized and my RE wanted to convert but after 7 failed IUI's and a cancellede IVF cycle I insisted. I now have a very happy 8 month old..All 3 fertilized and one stuck..Follow your gut!! Good luck

saverchic

Char, I'm so sorry.  I agree with iluvtom, that you've got to go with your gut.  The last time I did an IVF, they canceled it with 3 follies too, but one was really huge compared to the others. 

I hope you are feeling better about things today.  We love you!!

MrsKario

Char - sending big hugs.  I wish I had something to say to make you feel better.   Good luck with whatever decision you make.  

As others have said you can have success with lower numbers retrieved.  Remember JillAlly - she had a similar situation and was thinking about cancelling her cycle.  Well she didnt and got a BFP.  

I am holding out some hope that you have a few more at your next U/S.