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FB "Water"

Aubs13Aubs13 member
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So, in the past three days, I've had seven friends announce their pregnancies on FB.  One of my friends, who was married the week before DH & I tied the knot (and does not know about our loss) commented that I needed to "get on the ball and drink some of the pregnancy water that everyone has". 

And, here's how I feel about that comment:

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Re: FB "Water"

  • kndeckarkndeckar member

    Wow! Grrrr I have no idea why people make comments like that. Yeah she didn't know about your loss, but theres always that possibility that a couple is struggling with IF or miscarriage. Stupid people! I'm sorry (((hugs)))

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  • 3ltlones3ltlones member
    I'm sorry, I wish people would think before speaking.
    DD(9)DD(5.5)DS(3)DS(born 2/1/11) July 2006, lost a baby at 8 weeks, natural miscarriage , May 2009 lost Zoe Eliana at 17 weeks no reason known, possible under developed organs. Lost two more babies in September 2009 at 7 wks 4 days. Had myomectomy surgery to remove a large fibroid in November 2009.
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  • kmountkmount member
    Ugh, how awful :(  No matter what, that's an inappropriate comment (you never know if someone's struggling or maybe doesn't even want kids).
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  • sciteach104sciteach104
    she needs a throat punch!
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  • lsugirljenlsugirljen member

    image3ltlones:
    I'm sorry, I wish people would think before speaking.

    This, I'm sorry.

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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    So sorry. I hate when people don't think before making dumb comments.

    Jenn

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