just curious after my OB appt yesterday...my dr said I could elect to have a C-section and "almost no-one chooses to go vaginal". I would like to try to have a vaginal delivery if possible, I'm just wondering what everyone else did or is doing.
So. Did you elect to have a C? or Did you try to have a vaginal delivery but were unable for some reason? or Did you deliver vaginally?
Thanks!
Re: twin mommies, delivery?
UGH... I will save you from my long-winded version of my opinion on this (this topic comes up somewhat often). Basically it seems like many doctors try to talk (or even scare) MoMs into choosing c-sections when they're not always necessary or even the best way to go.
I delivered our identical girls vaginally and it went great. Great recovery, and we all left the hospital the day after I delivered them.
I had a c-section b/c A was breech and B was transverse and there were other complication at time of delivery.
My OB said she would have attempted vaginal birth if A was head down and B was not a lot bigger and there were no other issues.
Sorry to butt in - I just wanted to let you know that my aunt had twins vaginally with no epi or anything (because she is afraid of needles!) and everything worked out great. I had a scheduled C-section with my singleton because of a medical issue that I have and if I could go back in time I would NEVER do it again. The recovery for me was not great and I feel like I was 'robbed' of the birthing experience.
JMHO...
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Honestly, that kind of talk would have me looking for a new OB - even if I wanted a c-section. It tells me that OB either doesn't have much experience with twins or is scared of lawsuits or both.
The fact is nearly 50% of twins are born vaginally. Assuming Baby A is head down and there aren't other complications, vaginal delivery is best for mother and babies. It is my biggest pet peeve when OBs try to scare MoMs to be into unnecessary c-sections.
That being said, I actually don't have a problem with a MoM choosing an elective c-section - but I want her to do so knowing all the facts.
I'm very thankful that I had a peri (whom I saw exclusively) that allowed elective c-sections, but encouraged vaginal deliveries whenever possible. My vaginal delivery wasn't the easiest thing in the world, but I think it was best for my girls and my recovery was an absolute breeze.
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Very inaccurate! I saw 7different OBs and a peri during pregnancy (5 at one practice and then just switched practices) and I found the ones who tried to tell me that most MoMs choose C-sections were also the ones who pushed C-sections by trying to "sell" them, not mentioning benefits of vaginal delivery at all, and stressing the possibility of vaginally delivering one and then having to have a C-section for the second twin (which only happens 5% of the time). Well, of course most of your patients will choose C-sections if you put it that way and they don't do their own research!
In the US, 50% of twins are born vaginally. Mine were. Baby B flipped to breech during delivery (and had been flipping back and forth between breech and vertex from 31w on) but fortunately I had transferred to an OB who was comfortable and experienced with breech extractions for Baby B's, so that was no problem.
And ditto all of this!
i had mine vaginally!
birth story-
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/1/33425259/ShowThread.aspx
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So true! And I would, but I see an awesome peri too (much more often than the OB) so I feel like I am still in good hands. My OB will "let" me try vaginally, she's just "surprised I'd want to". Oh well. She can be surprised.
Thanks for all the responses, glad I'm not alone!!
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