Hey MoFree,
I haven't been on this board much lately, but I saw something on Oprah this afternoon that made me think of you. Not sure if you've heard about/seen this yet, but she's involved with a campaign called the "No Phone Zone." It's all about getting people to stop talking/texting and driving. She'll do a show on it on 4/30/10. Anyway, if you check her website there's a lot more info. Thought you might be interested...you certainly have a powerful story to tell about how devastating this can be.
If this is old news to you, sorry to bother you again. I think about you and your H often and hope that his recovery is going well...