I have no sex drive :(

Doozieanne

I feel bad for DH. I want to but can't find the energy or time. I am just as happy not having sex right now...which is not the normal me. DS is 7.5 weeks and I thought it would be better now. Who's with me?!

ilovemygirls

Sweetheart, you have a brand new baby & a toddler- it's very normal!! 

ParadisePrincess

I wish I was with you. Hurry up 6 week checkup!!

veggieball

I am right there with you.  I think BF is making it worse.  I don't know if it is the BF hormones or the fact that I have the baby attached to me about 7 - 8 hours a day....

I still have not had sex with him PP yet.  Poor DH!

chef'swife

DD is 3 months and I am still not really into sex.  I BF and it really does make you dry down there. DH is trying to be understanding, but it hurts his feelings sometimes when I don't want sex as often as he does.

Arcadia1114

DH and I have had sex once since LO was born.  I am just so tired at the end of the day that it is the last thing on my mind as well.  I'm hoping it gets better.

mishee10

I haven't done it since November!  I feel bad for my BF but I just have no desire. I'm also scared it will be painful.

dianaanderson

im the same way. if i had to choose sex or sleep i pick sleep. i have a very active 5 yr old and a 2 month old so my days are long and sex is usually the last thing on my mind.

craziheazo

Breastfeeding + 2 kids 13 months apart = a sexually frustrated DH here. I know that things will get better once DD#2 STTN but I, too, have no desire.

lostaspen

No sex drive here AT ALL.  Plus it's hard to find time, and when there's time there's no energy.  Poor DH...we've had sex once since I was 40 weeks pregnant.  

araevg

Not me! I can't wait to get back into the saddle, so to speak, again

Sophiebelle84

Totally there with you.  My DH is rarin' to go all the time - he has bought all this lingerie and I would rather just zonk out in bed.  We've only had sex twice since LO was born; I feel really guilty...

monj76

I'm a little late to this thread but I am in the same boat. My doc said its mother natures way of making sure we dont get ku to soon.

Mzshell13

Same here.  Sex is the last thing on my mind.  I don't think we've had sex since late fall.  I'm still sore down there from my stitches, and had to have repair work done twice.  I'm also extremely exhausted as I EBF and DS is still on a 2 hr schedule even at night.  DH will get over it ;-)

Butterflykisses10

Right there with you! DH was totally looking forward to getting past my 6 week appt (which was last Monday) even though I told him I might not be ready...poor guy! I almost just told him the dr said we would have to wait a few more weeks for things to heal Things still hurt down there from the stitches, plus being exhausted on top of that. He's so understanding, but I know its frustrating.