Just Venting - kind of long

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I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

ToshaGirl

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I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

Really?

I think the OP sounds weird and massively ungrateful. Despite how the note was worded, her over reaction (Calling the girl a witch, saying that if she responded it would be filled with "expletives") is horrid.

 

LCB34

ames17:

OMG! Someone did something kind for you! Oh the horror!

 

Edit: This also kinda puts your other post in perspective. You know, the one where you were complaining that your friend was throwing a shower for you, but expected you to help pay for it? As tacky as that is, I see now why she went that route?it's obvious you would have thrown a fit if anyone dared assume you were a "charity case." Get over yourself. 

Yes - this is a very good point and appears to be true.  What an ungrateful brat the OP is.

AleciaMarie

Another vote for psycho drama queen here.

opheliacantswim

You know, other women often think I don't like them--not because I give them dirty looks, but because I'm pretty shy and don't speak up much around people I don't know well.  Could this possibly be the case with that heinous biitch you know who had the audacity to send you maternity clothes after giving you "dirty looks" all the time?

So yeah--she sounds like an okay gal.  Your post, on the other hand . . . not so nice.  

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CathyMD:

hopeful:):

I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

Really?

I think the OP sounds weird and massively ungrateful. Despite how the note was worded, her over reaction (Calling the girl a witch, saying that if she responded it would be filled with "expletives") is horrid.

 

Yeah. I also figured OP wasn't providing background details about her history with this girl. The part about the expletives was overreactive, however I don't think that the OP is a bad person just because she's not psyched to get free clothes from someone she barely knows.

jshu610

This seems like such a non issue.  You may have been the only pregnant person she knows right now and is just trying to pass along some clothes that she doesn't need anymore for someone else to use.  I'm not really sure why you are freaking out about this.....

GatorMrs_Esq

sare_bear:

What the fvck is wrong with you?  Are you kidding?  The least you could do is appreciate that she was trying to be nice, but instead you're acting like a childish little brat with this "I'm better than that" attitude!

 So what would happen if all your belongings burned in a fire one day?  Would you be too proud to accept anything then?  Or would people even bother helping you because you obvously don't appreciate sh!t.

This x 1,000.

GatorMrs_Esq

Dup.

kategw

opheliacantswim:

You know, other women often think I don't like them--not because I give them dirty looks, but because I'm pretty shy and don't speak up much around people I don't know well.  Could this possibly be the case with that heinous biitch you know who had the audacity to send you maternity clothes after giving you "dirty looks" all the time?

So yeah--she sounds like an okay gal.  Your post, on the other hand . . . not so nice.  

I agree with this.  Particularly when I was younger, countless people  told me, "I thought you were such a b*tch before I actually talked to you"  Another lesson that you can't judge a book by its cover. 

slc2b

Wow, you sound like a real peach.  It sounds like she was just trying to do something nice.  You would seriously send this woman a message like this with more expletives, just because she thought you might like some of the clothes?  I think there is a reason she has not said more than 2 words to you or whatever.  It isn't like she said if you don't wear them I will hunt you down.  Get over yourself.  If you don't want them, don't take them.  It is that simple.

And I loved this:

"I've never said more than 2 words to this chick for her to know anything about me.  I'm sure I make more money on my own than both her and her husband combined "

If she knows nothing about you, who the hell are you to assume you know enough about her to make such a pretentious statement?  Ick.

max1563

618mom22boys:

Wow ungrateful much? 

I bet you will be one b!tching when it comes down to your baby shower and you didn't get what you wanted. 

Yea seriously...people like you irk me so much.  People are who they are, take it or leave it.  You probably manifested the dirty looks in your head somehow also.

Do you know how many people out there would literally KILL for clothes???  Especially maternity clothes, they are so damn expensive!

ToshaGirl

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CathyMD:

hopeful:):

I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

Really?

I think the OP sounds weird and massively ungrateful. Despite how the note was worded, her over reaction (Calling the girl a witch, saying that if she responded it would be filled with "expletives") is horrid.

 

Yeah. I also figured OP wasn't providing background details about her history with this girl. The part about the expletives was overreactive, however I don't think that the OP is a bad person just because she's not psyched to get free clothes from someone she barely knows.

She's certainly made herself sound bad with her post, not wanting free clothes or not.  You may be right though, probably more background. Who knows.

 

bstrangely

CathyMD:

hopeful:):

I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

Really?

I think the OP sounds weird and massively ungrateful. Despite how the note was worded, her over reaction (Calling the girl a witch, saying that if she responded it would be filled with "expletives") is horrid.

yeah, what exactly is wrong with "i took the liberty?" it doesn't mean, "hey ragamuffin, put some clothes on."

max1563

Wait..this could be MUD...

Seriously who gets angry when someone gives someone maternity clothes?  Especially since you barely know the person, which is so nice to do, and now you probably won't have to spend one red cent of the money you "make more of" anyhow.  

You can wear all the clothes that woman spent with the money she probably "makes less of" than you now!

teelaman

I totally think you should turn them down.

 

At least that way she'll get over trying to be nice to you and realize what kind of a person you really are. 

Oh, and I totally read the other post about how being pregnant has made you irritable already. You're 14 weeks. You don't know irritable. And hormones aren't an excuse to act like you're acting.

crows1920

bstrangely:

CathyMD:

hopeful:):

I can actually understand where the OP is coming from. It sounds like the girl who gave the clothes is awkward and weird. With a note starting with "I took the liberty", I'd be rubbed the wrong way, too.

Really?

I think the OP sounds weird and massively ungrateful. Despite how the note was worded, her over reaction (Calling the girl a witch, saying that if she responded it would be filled with "expletives") is horrid.

yeah, what exactly is wrong with "i took the liberty?" it doesn't mean, "hey ragamuffin, put some clothes on."

LOL that made me giggle.

i would love anyone offering up some maternity clothes. i mean i love buying clothes and all but normally when i shop i intend on wearing them a whole lot longer than maternity clothes actually fit for. heck, i work in a dr's office and pt's offer to bring me clothes all of the time. it makes no difference if you can afford them or not. it's called being a nice person and sharing what you can no longer use.

taratru

I usually come on the boards during the day to avoid high school drama.  Thanks for ruining THAT for me today, ya little bratty psycho. 

wannabemomma

ha...you think that she thinks you are a charity case because she dropped off some clothes for you...you AND your husband are crazy...how can you even consider a gesture like this rude...psychotic you are dear...

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CathyMD:

hopeful:):

Yeah. I also figured OP wasn't providing background details about her history with this girl. The part about the expletives was overreactive, however I don't think that the OP is a bad person just because she's not psyched to get free clothes from someone she barely knows.

She's certainly made herself sound bad with her post, not wanting free clothes or not.  You may be right though, probably more background. Who knows.

You know what would be really helpful? If the OP would participate in her post.

slc2b

taratru:

I usually come on the boards during the day to avoid high school drama.  Thanks for ruining THAT for me today, ya little bratty psycho. 

LOL Tara!

RitaT22

mrs.kapow:

Not to mention, you're not so far along that you'd really have changed that much in size. And I doubt you have an entire maternity wardrobe with absolutely no need for something down the line.

I think you're being ridiculous and need to relax. Take a look at the clothes and thank the woman, for goodness sake. 

This! 

bstrangely

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CathyMD:

hopeful:):

Yeah. I also figured OP wasn't providing background details about her history with this girl. The part about the expletives was overreactive, however I don't think that the OP is a bad person just because she's not psyched to get free clothes from someone she barely knows.

She's certainly made herself sound bad with her post, not wanting free clothes or not.  You may be right though, probably more background. Who knows.

You know what would be really helpful? If the OP would participate in her post.

nah, she'll probably tag in her husband to do that too.

ToshaGirl

taratru:

I usually come on the boards during the day to avoid high school drama.  Thanks for ruining THAT for me today, ya little bratty psycho. 

But but, the girl offered her CLOTHES Tara! The nerve! lol.

Chickpea2010

OP, congrats on all the mad cash! That must be sooo awesome!! I wish I had a good reason like that to look down on others who wanted to help me!!

momofolivia

This is why other boards make fun of the Tri boards

dori1678

OMG girls! She's from the REAL OC! We should all bow down to her! She's soooo rich!

OP -  If you think you are above accepting maternity clothes from this god awful witch, then please write her a letter explaining how much of a brat you are, so she can give her clothes to someone who was taught how to be grateful.

Judging by your bratty attitude you probably have never wanted for anything your entire life. You should try to live one week off of your daddy's money and see how your attitude changes.

MrsBNDO

taratru:

I usually come on the boards during the day to avoid high school drama.  Thanks for ruining THAT for me today, ya little bratty psycho. 

For some reason, this really did make me lol.

MSC03

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CathyMD:

hopeful:):

Yeah. I also figured OP wasn't providing background details about her history with this girl. The part about the expletives was overreactive, however I don't think that the OP is a bad person just because she's not psyched to get free clothes from someone she barely knows.

She's certainly made herself sound bad with her post, not wanting free clothes or not.  You may be right though, probably more background. Who knows.

You know what would be really helpful? If the OP would participate in her post.

Nah, she runs away and hates people who don't agree with her. I hate to say it, hopeful, but I think you were too kind in giving her the benefit of the doubt.

I keep snickering to myself because this post just REEKS of "new money," which I find completely comical.

ZooBaby2010

1.  Sounds like her perception of your friendship and yours differ.  And it doesn't sound like she dislikes you at all. 

 2.  Sharing maternity clothes is perfectly normal amongst friends and even acquaintances.  It saves everyone money and it's not like you wear them much - 9 months at a time...

3.  You sound totally crazy in this post.  Like frothing at the mouth angry.  Over something that was not rude, disrespectful or in any way mean.  She was being nice. 

4.  What on earth is your issue with this girl?  You make more money than her so you are better than her?  You sound VERY insecure.  

ETA

5.  If you hate her - why are you FB friends with her?  

Dobermonster

 

Annnnnnnnndddddd........CUT! Print, that's a wrap. Thanks for playing. 

jazzyexpo

I would love free maternity clothes, even though i can buy them myself, I don't want to. I'd rather spend the money on furniture for the nursery.

"I told my husband who usually thinks I overreact in most situations and he was just as put off as I was. "

You make it sound like you overreact a lot to things. Relax!

katie277s

  You're seriously mad that she gave you maternity clothes?  I don't understand....

ZooBaby2010

dori1678:

OMG girls! She's from the REAL OC! We should all bow down to her! She's soooo rich!

I'm from the REAL OC and I love my HMD maternity clothes!  She's just crazy.  Sigh.  Thanks for making us look bad!

wife1014

GatorMrs_Esq:

sare_bear:

What the fvck is wrong with you?  Are you kidding?  The least you could do is appreciate that she was trying to be nice, but instead you're acting like a childish little brat with this "I'm better than that" attitude!

 So what would happen if all your belongings burned in a fire one day?  Would you be too proud to accept anything then?  Or would people even bother helping you because you obvously don't appreciate sh!t.

This x 1,000.

this couldn't have been said any better.  I hope nothing tragic happens in your life where you may need help.  But you know what they say about karma.

melzer14

Annndddd DD is 5...4..3....2.....

I am not even going to respond to this...you should be ashamed.  

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Caryssa8

You are pathetic.  I have only been living in my house for 9 months and a neighbor that I barely know has given me a BOX full of maternity clothes.  The first thing that came to mind was "My God this lady is SO SWEET!"  If you don't want the clothes give them back!  How is she making you a charity case because she gave you some maternity clothes. 

And I'm with the PP who said she gets mistaken for a b!tch sometimes, I am very quiet and people think I am rude or too good for them because I am shy until I really get to know someone.

Get off your high horse dumba$$

FishNchips1

You know what, It just sounds like she was trying to be nice. Its pretty normal for ladies to share maternity clothes and I find it rather Sweet.

You sound completely bratty and ungrateful. Seriously, Why do you have to mention that you make more money than her, and can afford your own maternity clothes? Im sure she knows this, but I just dont get the point of you getting so p!ssed off because she offered them to you.

GROW UP. SAY THANK YOU. and use them! I know one day when my belly popped out I needed pants right away, and I dreaded going out and buying any bc i didn't feel well. It was nice having the pants there.

Send them my way, since you aren't a 'charity case' and all.

BRAT.

Mrsalt027

Ok saying "I took the liberty of..."blah blah was bltchy but other than that, why wouldn't you even see what the clothes looked like first? I personally could always use more maternity clothes because I feel like I wear the same 6 outfits week after week. Why does that make you a charity case? I don't know, I think you're blowing this WAY out of proportion. Yeah I get it that you don't like her but it sounds like she was doing something nice, even if she was bltchy in the way she approached it.