TTC After a Loss

10 DPO and BFN

I pretty much KNEW that would be the case...I didn't get a BFP last time until 14 DPO, and I tested on 10DPO last time too and it was a negative. But still...I wanted to test b/c I have no self-control.

 

Good news: cramps have subsided. Well, for the most part. Little twinges every now and then this morning....and no AF, yet. I kind of feel like it's only a matter of time.

 

Don't think I'll be testing again til Friday or so, if AF doesn't show before then. Looks like the B6 I've been taking has worked b/c I am officially at a 10-day luteal phase right now, and last cycle it was only 9.

 

I REALLY hope some of you get some better luck than I did today!!!

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BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

 

BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

Re: 10 DPO and BFN

  • Sorry to hear that.  But as you know, you're definitely not out yet.
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  • Sorry about your BFN! Remember you are very early though - try to hold out on testing again until Friday! Sending you BFP dust :)

    Very cool that the B6 helped your luteal phase!!

    Started TTC in 2/09. Dx with PCOS in 09/09. BFP on 11/7/09.
    Dx with Ectopic on 12/7/09. Laparoscopy, D&C, and lost my left tube on 12/08/09.
    01/11 = BFP!
    Finnegan Alexander born 9/25/11 via emergency c-section
  • Oh yes, my optimistic side is definitely remembering that I'm not out yet. It ain't over til it's over...for sure. I just don't really have any symptoms going either way at this point - I have taken note of some things in my chart but they could go either way, towards AF or towards a BFP.
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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • I got a BFN too but its not over til its over:)
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    Baby A born via c-section 1/10/12 @38w3d
    BFP #1 11/4/09 m/c 4w3d baby crab
    BFP #2 12/4/09 m/c 9w3d baby lion
    BFP #3 7/1/10 m/c 4w1d baby fish
    BFP #4 5/8/11
    BFP #5 8/17/12 10dpo beta 7
  • imagejen629:
    I got a BFN too but its not over til its over:)

     

    Well dangit! I was hoping at least one of us 10DPO'ers would have some luck today!

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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • Sorry about the BFN, but hopefully you'll get a BFP in a few more days.
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  • There is still a chance.  Glad to hear that the B6 is working for you...every day counts.

  • Still early! :)

    I got a BFN too but I'm only 8dpo Embarrassed

    It's my birthday so I'll POAS if I want to. LOL

    Momma to three boys: Henry - 4yo Alex - 18mo Jack - born 2/23/12 at 20w due to ruptured uterus (previa and accreta resulting in hysterectomy) He only lived here on Earth for an hour, but he will live in our hearts forever. m/c #1: sept '09, m/c #2: july '10
  • Boo for the BFN, but you are right--it's definitely not over! GL on Friday!
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    Blighted Ovum 7/2008 (D&C)
    Ectopic 7/2009 (Emergency surgery:removal of left tube)
    Blighted Ovum 1/2010 (Natural m/c)
    DS #1: 2/7/11
    Ectopic 2/2012
    BFP: 12/24/2013
  • I hope it's just too early for you and then next time you test will be a BFP!
  • I love all of you guys, just thought you should know. You can make any day and any situation seem just a little better or easier to deal with!

     

    I just want to say "haha" to the birthday POAS....I know what you mean and I'd do it too!! If this cycle is a bust I'll be testing on my birthday at the end of this month!!! (I have short cycles usually)

     

    And I guess I can be a testimony to the B6...seriously, one extra day is a big deal IMO!

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    BFP # 1 - 12/19/09 EDD 08/27/10 - D&C 1/26/10 @ 9w5d

    BFP # 2 - 06/05/10 EDD 02/17/11, DS1 born on 2/14/11

    BFP # 3 - 04/10/13 EDD 12/21/13 - D&C 05/15/13 @ 8w4d

    BFP # 4 - 07/27/13 EDD 04/08/14 - CP 07/29/13

     

    BFP # 5 - 09/14/13 EDD 05/28/14, DS2 born on 5/22/14 

  • Sorry--I know it is so disappointing!  But you still have a chance!
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    Still early! :)

    I got a BFN too but I'm only 8dpo Embarrassed

    It's my birthday so I'll POAS if I want to. LOL

    Happy birthday!!!

    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • Sorry about the BFN, but I have my fingers crossed for you for an extra dark BFP on Friday!!
    BFP #1- 12/3/09, EDD- 8/7/10, Missed M/C at 8 weeks & D&C- 1/5/10, BFP #2- July 2010, Baby Charlie Born March 29, 2011, BFP #3- 4/12/12- EDD- 12/21/12, Missed M/C at 10 1/2 weeks 5/29/12, D&C 6/1/12- testing results showed triploidy, IF testing all normal, February 2013- IUI#1, femara, follistim, trigger =BFN, March 2013- IUI#2, femara, follistim, trigger= BFP #4, 3/20/12, Beta#1 16dpo= 397, Beta #2 18dpo= 1037, Beta#3 24dpo= 11,589- EDD 11/30/13- It's a Girl!!! Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker BabyFruit Ticker
  • There's nothing to do but wait it out now.  What you describe could be AF or you could be pg.  I hope it's the second one.

    Brenna Married 4.30.05

    Mom to Teagan 4.11.07 and Cora 9.30.11

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  • Sorry about the BFN but it's not over yet! My fingers are crossed for you girl.
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  • BFNs stink!!! I hope we both get better news soon!
    ~Married- 10.20.2007~ TTC Since- 4.3.2009 ~BFP#1- 8.25.2009 ~ Missed M/C and D&C-10.9.2009 ~BFP#2-8.12.2010 ~ EDD- 4.20.2011~ It
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    BFNs stink!!! I hope we both get better news soon!

    Ditto!

  • You are definitely NOT out.... stay strong!!!!  GL!!!
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  • Sorry about the BFN girl.  I got a BFN today, too :(
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  • I'm sorry about the BFN. I hope AF stays away.

    BFP 12/18/2009. HB 1/4/2010. NO HB 1/18/2010. D&C 1/19/2010
    April 2011 IUI #1 BFN. High FSH and other issues.
    May 2011 Chose to build our family through adoption
    September 2011 Actively waiting for a match
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  • Sorry about the BFN, but you know the drill -- it's not over until AF shows.  I'll keep my fingers crossed for you on Friday!
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  • sorry about the BFN....hope it was just too early and you get a BFP very soon!!!
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  • Dang!  I hope you get  your BFP in a few days!
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