VandRicky

MellyMelB

Hey Virginia,

I was thinking about you and your friend whose kid you watched last week. Were you guys able to resolve the problem? Did she come pick up her son on time on Friday?

I hope so and that all is well!

ox,

Mel

VandRicky

Hey girl!

My friend picked up her son about 45min later than expected but what can I do?

I honestly didn't say anything because I was just so tired of talking to people-lol.

I am just going to let it go from now but hopefully I have learned my lesson. I just pray this doesn't happen again or I will have to say something because I know he has two weeks of "off time" between school ending and summer camp starting. I will be 7 months pregnant then and definatly NOT in the mood to watch anyone but my own kids.

I understand that juggling a job, kids and a household is alot of work but I just don't understand how someone did not have a backup plan, I didn't even get any notice either which felt to me as if she were saying to me " well you've got nothing better to do than watch other people's kids".

I know she felt comfortable enough to ask me (I watched him on and off for two weeks when she was pregnant and in the hopsital) but still...

How are you feeling? Do you have any feeling of what youare going to have? My heart says you are going to have another girl (maybe because when I think of you I think of two sisters- like you and your sisters) but I think you might have a boy. LOL I am usually not that indecisive.

I am looking forward to finding out!

Thank you for thinking of me!

V

MellyMelB

Well, hopefully next time she will not have you as her back-up plan and if she does.....we will remind you that the answer needs to be n-o. Or just start telling her in like a month to make sure she makes arrangement because at 7 months pregnant you are not going to be into taking care of an additional child. If she is not understanding then she is not the friend she should be to you. That is a HUGE burden to put on you physicially and emotionally.

I am feeling great. This pregnancy is going very similar to Sophie's right about now. Very familiar 2nd trimester. No sickness, more energy, etc... My belly looks and feels different than mine with Sophie. I think its a boy. Sophie thinks its a girl. LOL. I may be able to find out on Thursday! I hope so. I am dying to know, too!!!