If you do not want 2U2, or 2U1....

firsttogo

Do not have sex without BC, or condoms post-partum!

I am so tired of posts on 0-3, 3-6 ect with moms freaking about their periods being MIA. Make it not a possibility if it would upset the apple-cart to have another. 

We did not know if it were possible to happen on our own, but would love the chance to find out! We were fine with another so soon, and that is why we had unprotected sex. 

Vent over!

craziheazo

Sometimes BC fails....

I was the same way as you. Never dreamed that it would happen, so we did have unprotected sex, but DD#2 was welcomed with loving arms.

My friend just had an IUD fail. Her two will be 13.5 months apart (like mine). Sometimes it isn't so cut and dry.

shouldbworkin

I hear what you're saying.  The minipill can be a little unpredictable, especially if you don't take at the same time everyday (which can be hard to do with a LO in the house).  But, I totally don't understand being suprised if you have unprotected sex.  at all.

NFL_Wife

I completely agree with you. I said the same thing to DH yesterday. I have two friends who are both pg and don;t want to be, didn't want their kids so close, blah blah blah.... they both are smart girls and know how babies are made, so I don't feel bad for them at all!

caymanbride

I totally agree with you. Yes, sometimes BC fails, but more often than not, that doesn't seem to be the case with those posts.

MrsGeek

craziheazo:

Sometimes BC fails....

I was the same way as you. Never dreamed that it would happen, so we did have unprotected sex, but DD#2 was welcomed with loving arms.

My friend just had an IUD fail. Her two will be 13.5 months apart (like mine). Sometimes it isn't so cut and dry.

Which IUD?  I am using Mirena and cannot handle a third kid right now.

craziheazo

MrsGeek:

craziheazo:

Sometimes BC fails....

I was the same way as you. Never dreamed that it would happen, so we did have unprotected sex, but DD#2 was welcomed with loving arms.

My friend just had an IUD fail. Her two will be 13.5 months apart (like mine). Sometimes it isn't so cut and dry.

Which IUD?  I am using Mirena and cannot handle a third kid right now.

PARAGUARD. I have a Mirena too. 

SweetPeanis

We wanted 2u2!  In fact we wanted them much closer than we are going to have them.  So we purposly had unprotected sex right away!  I just didn't get as lucky as some of the girls who have "oops" pregnancies.

firsttogo

We wanted them close too! This time however we did not need fert. treatment, which was a surprise.... yet a welcome one!

I am just sick of reading the "Oh, no, where is AF posts on 0-3, 3-6, ect. 

jkelly41

I personally love "we only had unprotected sex once!" story. 

hellopoppyseed

Yup I told dh that abstinence is the only "safe" sex and we might try it after #2. Haha. No really I can't imagine being mad or upset because you are pregnant. I do understand shock, denial, fear. If you are having sex, you should know that it is possible.

HarkelAD

I was especially appalled by the person who commented that she would abort if she got pregnant now.  Seriously, abstinence is the ONLY way to 100% not get pregnant.  Trust me, I know!