DH and I are currently TTC #2 and have
been for a little over a year. My DD is 21 months old. I guess I'm
more just posting for support, since anyone I know IRL just doesn't seem
to get it, especially since I've had one baby we're getting all the "so
where's #2?" questions. I guess most people assume if you got pg once it should be a snap the second time!
We started TTC #1 when I was 37, got pregnant with DD in 9 cycles. But this time no luck. I'm now 40 (ugh, it hurts to type that!) I've had the blood tests, tried clomid, both 50 and 100 mg, no luck. My hormone levels always come back normal, except once my progesterone was a bit low. Our next step is to have DH tested and possible IUI.
I guess it just hit me like a ton of bricks today after I talked to my OB's NP about getting DH tested. Until now I guess I just figured it will happen, just be patient. But now I can't stop thinking that maybe it won't, and we're just meant to have one, and that makes me so sad. I love DD more than anything in the world, I just never thought we'd be "one and done". We're willing to explore IUI, but more extreme/invasive measures (ie IVF) aren't an option, financially or otherwise.
Anyone else here working on #2 (or 3, etc)?