Success after IF

DH is ready ttc already

When the girls were a couple months old I was ready. Now that they are older, I'm not so sure. They still do not consistently STTN. I asked him to pick up my refill on my BC last night and he was really upset about it. He said I thought we were going to start trying again. The original plan was to stop BC at 12 months.

Ah well... I'd love another baby, to be pregnant again and to grow the family but I'm really not so sure about 2 toddlers and a newborn.

Re: DH is ready ttc already

  • You and I are on the same boat.  We talked about ttc'ing #3 and decided to come off BCP last month.  I thought I was ready, but then we had a few rough days with the boys and I thought maybe I was crazy!!!  The reality is that I am ready and I can't let a few bad days get in my head.  To me, two toddlers and a newborn is better than being so far removed from the baby stage and then having a newborn (that is of course if we're lucky enough to get pregnant relatively quickly). 
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  • That's really a great point. Who knows how long it will take and it would be nice for everyone to be close in age.
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