I have been fortunate enough to have found a mommy group that I really love. There are a whole bunch of babies all within a few months of each other and their moms are super nice! A few of us have formed some good friendships already and host lunches at our houses, walks in the local park etc.
But there is this one girl....
She says things to her son like "Stop crying...only fags cry. Don't be a fag, be a man. Don't be a wuss." (Not that it matters, but her son is only 4.5 months old) The first time I heard it, I thought I misheard her! She says it a lot though! It makes me VERY uncomfortable and really disgusts me. Yesterday when she said it (again) I looked at Henry and said (loud
enough for her to hear) "There is nothing wrong with crying-boys can cry and that's okay." I know Henry is too little to understand, but I don't want him hearing that- I don't want to hear that either!
Would you say something? I always struggle with stuff like this...when someone tells a "joke" that is offensive I feel like it's just as bad to ignore it and not say something as it is to laugh.