TTC After a Loss

Hey ladies!!! Finally, an update. (LONG!)

I can not thank you enough for how wonderful you are!  Thanks so much for your prayers today, and your encouraging words.  I was much stronger today, thanks to your support, than I would have been on my own.

I'm still trying to figure out a way to post all this without making you go blind from reading.  So I'll post what I think is the big stuff, and I can answer questions from there.

Let me just say, that this RI is amazing.  I am so thankful, and pray she has the answers.  But all this is certainly an improvement from my OB and Clomid.

1.  The ultrasound found that I have NO circulation in my endometrial lining.  Nothing.  So there would never have been hope of a baby thriving after implantation.  

2.  Thanks to PCOS my ovaries are on vacation.  They are not ovulating and the circulation to both is very poor.

3.  I have a beta mutation on my DNA that is linked with MTHFR.  It severely increases the effects of blood clotting in small vessels.  So my blood is clotting to easily keeping circulation from being effective in my uterus.

4.  My natural killer cells are stimulated, which means they are likely attacking 'foreign body' and attacking fetal growth.  This also causes inflammation in my immune system that impedes circulation.

MY BODY IS SO WIGGED OUT!  Indifferent

Thankfully, there is nothing that will cause my any problems outside of conception and carrying a pregnancy.  AND my Dr. is totally a Pro at this.  I know she will see me through.

So here's the plan.

1.  Induce a cycle within 40 days if my cycle isn't improved from the Metformin I'm on to help with PCOS.

2.  Begin injectable blood thinners immediately following AF.  Once a day.  If we get pregnant, I will increase injections to twice a day!

3.  Get US monitoring for O!  (My Dr.'s have never allowed this before.  I'm thrilled!)

4.  Following O, I will begin Progesterone!  (Yeah, I've had to twist my Dr.s arm to give me progesterone once I got pregnant, let alone early.  I'm so glad!)

5.  Following O, also begin IVIG.  (This is the big one girls.)  They need to give me steroids to suppress my killer cells.  The best way to do this is through IV medication.  I will have to recieve this every two weeks at Ovulation and throughout a pregnancy.

Most of this I can do with my OB, and she will monitor from the city.  She said that I have some problems, but they should have the solution in this plan.  

My mind is spinning.  But I am thrilled to not be waiting anymore!!  I have a plan!

(Just prepare for the complete meltdown in a few days.  I might feel the affects of this later! )

Love you girls.  Thank you so much!

And feel free to ask away!

Re: Hey ladies!!! Finally, an update. (LONG!)

  • wow thats a lot to take in but I am glad it went well!
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  • Wow...I am so glad that you got some answers and that you have a plan!
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  • I'm so glad you have answers! That is so much to deal with at once but I'm glad you know what will help you and DH have a sticky baby! (((HUGS))) and we will be here for you through all of it!
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  • I'm so happy that you finally have some answers and your Dr. is doing so much to help you through it all!! 

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  • Whew...I made it all the way through! Haha...That is a lot to take in but I am so glad that you are getting some answers and a plan to move forward with....GL hun!
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  • Wow, that's a lot! I'm glad that you are starting to get answers and have a new plan! I hope that it works!! 

    How did your RI figure out that you have killer cells? I'm just curious, because I started to worry about this for myself - because I'm neurotic! 

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  • Wow that's a lot but it's huge to have those answers and even better a plan!
  • oh wow!  that is great that you finally got some answers.  i'm so so so happy that your dr has a plan for you.  yay!!!!

    what is your blood type?  are you negative?

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  • Glad you got answers and a plan. I always feel better after I have a nice good sound plan in place. It helps with everything and eases anxiety for me.
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  • Wow that is intense but it sounds like you doctor really knows what she is doing. Good luck with your plan - I can't wait to hear it how goes!
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  • I am so excited for you.  I really hope that this plan works!!!!!!
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  • I'm so glad you have a plan to move forward hon.
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  • WOW! It sounds like you've found an amazing dr. Its a lot, but its an amazing plan. Good luck :) ::hugs::
  • wow! lots to take in but sounds like they have everything figured out which is great news!!!!! 
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  • Wow, I know that is so overwhelming, but it's great you got such detailed answers and seems like it's a good plan! Best of luck hun!
  • that is a lot of info to digest......but I'm so glad you have some answers and a plan!  GL to you.....
  • Wow I am so glad you got answers and have a good plan in place!  Good luck with everything!  We will be with you along the way Big Smile
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  • So glad to hear you've got a plan! GL:)
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  • I'm thinking about and praying for you!
  • I'm so glad you got some answers. I hope this plan leads to your healthy, take home baby. ((hugs))

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  • Wow!  I am so glad that your appointment went well and that you have a plan.  I can't wait to see your BFP with a sticky baby very soon! 

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  • I am glad that you are finally getting answers and a plan! I will keep praying for everything to go well!  My RE that I met yesterday seems to think that there's a lot more to this killer cell thing than most OBs think.  That's one of the tests I'm getting this month.  Good luck with everything!

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  • I'm glad you got a diagnosis and have a plan! 

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  • So glad your appt went well and you got some answers. Sending you lots of hugs and positive thoughts.

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