I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I'm a schmuck. I know.
you are correct. She had her tubes tied after she got pregnant naturally with the first set of twins (who were triplets but she lost one) to prevent having twins or triplets. and i do believe her exhusband she had the little girls with had some MFI.
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I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I'm a schmuck. I know.
I don't think you sound immature or selfish. Her and I triggered on the same night. She's pregnant with twins and I got a big negative. I'm usually not jealous but I had a hard time reading her blog.
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I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I'm a schmuck. I know.
I feel the exact same way. And, I know she isn't trying to do this but, I feel like her situation is slapping us regular IF girls in the face.
Also, I am struggling with the jealousy of why she gets all these kids/ multiples when I can't keep all three of my babies. Not rational but how I feel none the less.
I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I'm a schmuck. I know.
you are correct. She had her tubes tied after she got pregnant naturally with the first set of twins (who were triplets but she lost one) to prevent having twins or triplets. and i do believe her exhusband she had the little girls with had some MFI.
Her new husband has MFI, too.
Who knows, maybe these feelings are why she decided to stop posting here. She may feel awkward about it as well.
Re: What is Jody's blog link....
Wow.
I am going to admit something that will make me sound immature and selfish, but at the moment it feels really unfair that someone who already has 5 kids is getting twins again. And I know she did IVF, but unless there's something I don't know, isn't it because she had her tubes tied, not because she is battling infertility? I don't have anything against Jody and have never gotten involved in the drama, but I am having some bitter, old "spread the love" feelings.
I'm a schmuck. I know.
Amber
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no flames here, i feel the same way.
you are correct. She had her tubes tied after she got pregnant naturally with the first set of twins (who were triplets but she lost one) to prevent having twins or triplets. and i do believe her exhusband she had the little girls with had some MFI.
I don't think you sound immature or selfish. Her and I triggered on the same night. She's pregnant with twins and I got a big negative. I'm usually not jealous but I had a hard time reading her blog.
Also, I am struggling with the jealousy of why she gets all these kids/ multiples when I can't keep all three of my babies. Not rational but how I feel none the less.
Her new husband has MFI, too.
Who knows, maybe these feelings are why she decided to stop posting here. She may feel awkward about it as well.
Kahana, I'm so sorry to hear that.