Just got the news my SIL is pregnant, i am over the moon of course and its a bonus that i am their childrens only aunty, they have a 4yr old girl and 2yr boy, i adore them...anyway the stabbing thing is they werent trying .....it was a surprise, they gave away their baby clothes at xmas and were going to try for another in about 2yrs!! So thats that, off my chest, im just feeling bummed but looking forward to baby!! Hope some more BFPs come in, have a great day ladies!
It is definitely a mixed emotions situation. Happy for the fertiles, but dang it why is it so easy for some people?!?! My big thing is, I just want to scream at them, "do you know how lucky you are?"
I give up trying to get a ticker. I have a DD that is 2.5 years old and is awesome. Maybe I'll add a quote to distinguish myself. Hmmm. How about...
"It is more fun to talk with someone who doesn't use long, difficult words but rather short, easy words like "What about lunch?" - A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
i think everything you're feeling is totally natural. it was super hard for me to be around my niece and nephew when we had our fertility probs. especially since SIL always bragged about how 'easy' it was for her to get pg with both of them.
hang in there as best you can. there will be good and bad days, and you're totally entitled to feel how you're feeling.
Re: SIL pg....
I think you're handling it amazingly well.
And you sound like the best Auntie.
I have faith that your time will come.
I wish it could be that easy for all of us, and I so know how it is to hear others' good and easy news.
((hugs))
i think everything you're feeling is totally natural. it was super hard for me to be around my niece and nephew when we had our fertility probs. especially since SIL always bragged about how 'easy' it was for her to get pg with both of them.
hang in there as best you can. there will be good and bad days, and you're totally entitled to feel how you're feeling.