Look.

AppleRidge

Nobody's trying to start an interboard war here.

Please understand that TTCAL is a very close-knit board.  Many of us are friends IRL, and it is not surprising considering the stuff we've supported each other through.  Those girls have been with me for the fallout from my first loss and the two subsequent and it's been the only thing that's gotten me through.  Everyone has everyone's back.

So when some total stranger posts a BFP on our board, we're inclined to be rude and inconsiderate because that person is being rude and inconsiderate.  She is kicking us while we're down; we're kicking her back when she's up.  All we are asking is for people to be kind enough to get to know us, or at least consider whether it is appropriate, before bragging about their BFP.  In this case, she was number 3 of about 5 people that have done this in the last two days.  I assure you we would have just ignored her in a different situation.

So, everybody chill out.  MK, H&H 9 months, but FFS be more considerate. 

mcurban

Noted.

we've got the same thing going on over here (friends IRL, etc) so, it's natural (on both sides) for our haunches to get raised in defense of a friend. 

I think everyone is (or is in the process of) chilling out. 

 

MC+KK

IT MAY NOT BE A BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats why I was asking. I have had this happen to me in the past. It freaks me out. I'm scared and THAT IS ALL.

AppleRidge

mcurban:

Noted.

we've got the same thing going on over here (friends IRL, etc) so, it's natural (on both sides) for our haunches to get raised in defense of a friend. 

I think everyone is (or is in the process of) chilling out. 

 

Cool.  I didn't mean to prolong this, just to stop any perception that TTCALers are a bunch of bitter b!tches (which we are, of course, but we do usually play nice).

AppleRidge

MC+KK:

IT MAY NOT BE A BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats why I was asking. I have had this happen to me in the past. It freaks me out. I'm scared and THAT IS ALL.

Two lines is a BFP.  I do hope it stays that way - Believe me, I know how rough that is. 

CarrieLeigh84

MC+KK:

IT MAY NOT BE A BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thats why I was asking. I have had this happen to me in the past. It freaks me out. I'm scared and THAT IS ALL.

Fair enough. But none of on the board are currently pregnant... or else we wouldn't be on the TTC board.. we would be on the PREGNANT after a loss board.

I wouldn't know a positive pee stick if it walked up and slapped me in the face right now.

MC+KK

Thank you