As some of you suggested, I casually brought it up and asked if everything is ok and if it's anything she needs help on. She looked kind of sheepish/uncomfy and just said, "No, it's nothing big. Just something I should have dealt with, but didn't, so I'm having to deal with it now." I definitely was not comfortable asking more questions about it. So I'm still not sure exactly what it is, but I trust her enough to take her word that it is something small. I'm thinking maybe either a parking or traffic ticket she didn't take care of?? There's a little part of me that worries a tad about her level of responsibility if she failed to take care of a ticket, but we're all human and make mistakes. And I know that before we hired her she was in a bit of a financial pickle...
I paid for (an admittedly cheapy) online background check before we hired her (~4 months ago) - shouldn't an oustanding traffic or whatever ticket have shown up? Not that I think that would have made a difference whether we hired her or not, but now I'm just questioning how accurate those are.
Thanks for everyone's advice & input!
Re: update: nanny's "court date"
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It could be related to something financial, like a collection or bounced check. Even really great people can get overwhelmed by financial mistakes, and they snowball so quickly.
It sounds like she's a great nanny, and I think it speaks volumes that she was open about having a court date, evn if she doesn't want to get very specific.
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Speaking from experience, it's not that hard to forget about a ticket and then have an "oh $hit" moment when you realize that you've now got to go to court to pay it.
I agree with KA - it speaks very well of her that she's being honest about why she has to leave work early.
Okay so I am inquisitive and looked, all you have to put in is date of birth not even a name.
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