I am weak and confused ..help!

EEachen

I had spotting the evening of 9 dpo, convinced AF was on her way, spotting in the am of 10 dpo, gearing up for this cycle to be over. Well since the morning of 10 dpo no spotting. I had another high temp this morning...and did it. POAS, of course BFN. I'm not fishing, just frustrated in myself for POAS and knowing that a triphastic chart doesn't = BFP. But when FF put that on my chart, it instantly put the pee sticks in my hand! lol And my loving DH is not helping who grabs the stick takes it in the living room and insists he sees a faint line....I see nothing. I wish I would have come on here and had you guys talk me down first.

rrcraz7

Your chart is still looking pretty! Its still a bit early. I don't even have confirmed O and I came thisclose to POAS this morning!

GOOD LUCK!

Jewlz018

lissasue3:

Your DH needs to put the pee stick down!  Having someone in the house to egg you on is going to make you crazy.

Stay strong!

Yes definitely! 

My DH is the opposite and it helps. 

Good Luck being patient...I know its tough!

atlb

:-( Sorry to hear that. I know it must be hard to resist POAS. Don't count yourself out yet, though!

 (Also, your pups are adorable. I have a cocker too. They are the best dogs ever, especially when you are feeling sad and frustrated)

j&lo82907

I am kind of in the same boat. But I haven't tested yet, I am waiting to see what today brings. Try to resist, but I know I wouldn't be able to.

canthardlywait426

What is it that you are confused and need help about? Why you have a triphasic chart and no bfp? Ive had 4 triphasic charts and Im not pregnant. A pretty chart =/= bfp.

If you want to stop being weak and confused, etc. then put the pee sticks down. Tell your DH he's not helping.

EEachen

canthardlywait426:

What is it that you are confused and need help about? Why you have a triphasic chart and no bfp? Ive had 4 triphasic charts and Im not pregnant. A pretty chart =/= bfp.

If you want to stop being weak and confused, etc. then put the pee sticks down. Tell your DH he's not helping.

I wrote in my original post that I know that a triphastic chart doesn't = BFP.  I was just looking for a little support, obviously BFN are a let down and I think even more so when you do have a "pretty chart". I did it to myself, yes, but many women have been in this position and I was throwing myself a pity party and didn't want to do it alone.

MKFC

Aww so sorry you saw a negative. Try your hardest to be patient for a few days. I know it is tough.. but it will be easier than putting yourself through another negative test. Fingers crossed for you!!!!! Good luck!

elle2900

I'm really sorry you are in the crappy waiting boat - I am sure that DH is only doing what he thinks is best - they try but sometimes just don't "get" it -

it is okay to be weak and POAS too often/ early - You aren't alone - I hope your day gets better:)   I mostly hope you get your BFP!!!

LadyXaverian

I'm sorry for the BFNs. I agree that you need to tell DH he's making it worse.

Try to be patient, and good luck.