It's always a struggle to make him stop playing and use the bathroom, but he will finally go and do the process himself... except for when he's done. He'll sit in the bathroom with his pants around his ankles, playing/talking to himself, etc. I constantly have to nag him to finish up, otherwise going to the bathroom takes him like 30 minutes!
DH says he's just enjoying relaxation time in the bathroom. lol That's all fine and good, but sometimes it would be nice if he could do the whole process without having to nag him every.single.time.
Re: Does your 3.5 y.o. do this? re: going potty
No way.
My kid is way too hyperactive to sit on the potty for 30 minutes!