Sick of BFF whining!!

mlm1128

Oh my god I already can't take this.  SHe has been seeing a guy for about a month.  Every stinking day she has something to complain about.  He doesn't call every day.  He doesn't return her calls fast enough. He doesn't spend enough time with her. He is not driven enough.

I wish that she would listen when we talk to her.  The whining and constant nagging...it's why her relationships all have a short life span.  She is far to demanding.

MelandJeff

You have told her this? If not, I would.

JOEBunny

It is always super fun to date someone who only sees your faults.  Yikes, Maybe copy all her post and put them in one mail and email them back to her, so she can see how she comes across.  Poor guys!

kelly&paul

do we have the same bff? Mine has ridiculous expectations and dumps the guy when he doesn't live up to them. Problem? she doesn't let the guy in on them. She expects to have flowers sent to her for whatever reason within a certain amount of time. She doesn't get them, the guy is gone. She has a checklist of like 10 things and if the guy doesn't fit all the criteria, he's gone. She's married now but it was pretty shaky for awhile. She never listens either. Set in her ways and says she deserves what she deserves and won't settle for anything less.

ppants

You can send her a copy of He's Just Not that into you and maybe then she can figure it out.

mlm1128

Yes, I have told her this.  But some of her other friends like to join in on the woe is me nonsense and just feed her negativity.  They act like the man should be kissing her feet and feeding her grapes. 

They have been out about 3-4 times.  He is not in any way obligated to contact her every 15 minutes.  And half the time she calls his cell phone while he's working.  Maybe he's busy!

Rebekah1021

Is she princess? Is this why she's acting like this?

I hope you told her to give him some space.

mlm1128

Ha!  No, not princess...DIVA!