I hate when DH acts like he know more...
about MY medical condition than I do.
He swears up and down that my dr specifically said that they dont use birth control to help with endometriosis. He said that after surgery she told him this. I told him that theres no way she said that to him. That outside of surgery thats one of the main ways they "treat" it. I explained that it doesnt magically take it away, but that it can help. (With the symptoms, etc). He swears up and down that the dr told him they never use BC for it.
I just gave him a handful of info about it and he says "are you really going to ague with me about what your dr said while you were still out of it?"
Um. Yes. I know my dr. I know my body, and I know what she says/thinks because weve been dealing with this for a long time. TYVM.
Cooper+Evie=Soulmates
Re: I hate when DH acts like he know more...
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
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Agreed. If only there was medication to help them with this problem.
Ditto.
My DH swears that our "problem" is due to him not eating properly and such ( he hasn't gotten a SA to even say the problem is on his end). I highly doubt it but I have to give him a chance before we start going to a RE.
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
He says "Then why would your dr tell me that?" Easy, because she didnt. Youre getting confused.
He also said "They got all the endo out." Um, no. I can see the pictures, they didnt. Dr sat there and said there was a lot in places she couldnt go near because there were too many blood vessels around it.
My dr talks very very fast. It would be easy to misunderstand her. But he swears thats what she said!
Cooper+Evie=Soulmates
Ug!! My DH is like this too!! It does get annoying. But I still love him!
after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
IT'S A GIRL!
#2 EDD 2/5/13 dx with anti-BIG E antibody, seeing a MFM
I don't take one single minute for granted.
Cooper+Evie=Soulmates
Oh Heather Heather Heather. Do you not know me at all!!?!?!? Haha.
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haha, yes they do! They deal with it for 5 seconds, we've been dealing with things and know terminology from dealing with it our entire lives and suddenly they are the experts! Drives me nuts sometimes.
Oh, I didn't think you would go this route, just a thought...tee hee.
Same here...and I'm almost never wrong
Carina 12.28.2010 | Aurelia 9.23.12 | Chart - Round 3
That's so frustrating! My DH used to do the same thing. I made him attend doctor's appointments with me so he could hear the information first hand.
My doctor didn't want to treat/diagnose my 'endometriosis' with a laparascopy at all. He put me on BCP with no breaks 'indefinitely'. He told me that endo can be controlled completely with hormone therapy (which isn't exactly condusive to TTC) My symptoms completely went away, I felt like a different person. Now that I am off BCP my symptoms are back (worse than ever) and I am pushing for a lap.
June/July 2011 - IVF #1 - Transfer cancelled due to OHSS
23 perfect embryos. All 23 made it to freezing!
September/October - FET #1 - October 12th - 2 Grade A embies
October 20th - BFP??! EDD - July 1, 2012
Beta #1 = 154, Beta #2 = 352 Beta #3 = 3,800
U/S #2 - November 14th = 133 bpm! U/S #3 & 4 - November 30th and December 7th = 163 bpm! U/S#5 - January 30th - TEAM PINK!!!
Baby Sweets born on her due date!
So does he...sigh.
after anovulatory diagnosis and TTC for 1 1/2yrs with several medicated cycles and one chemical pregnancy, we have our first bundle of joy!
IT'S A GIRL!
#2 EDD 2/5/13 dx with anti-BIG E antibody, seeing a MFM
I don't take one single minute for granted.