Husband sent me and Kalie flowers

stillhoping

really, you think that is going to make last night go away.. One bouquet for me and one for her.

 

I know he is trying but you can not buy your way out of this. 

 

I have made us an appointment with a marriage counselor for next week, he says he will go with out any hesitation. So, at least there is that

EliseB0323

Well, at least he realizes he did something he should be sorry for. That's a good first step, IMO.

Good Luck

stillhoping

Thanks, and yes that is a good step in the right direction. He told me earlier today that he knew he was out of line when he was doing it. He needs to learn better self control and I told him that. I said if you know you are crossing that line, or close to crossing it you need to remove yourself from the situation before it gets to this point.

 

I told him that in the future he would need to leave the room and we would discuss the issue once he calmed down, that it was better to give yourself time to calm down so that you do not do or say things that could harm your child's self esteem. 

camrude

I'm glad he's willing to see someone. Good luck to you guys.

mlm1128

I just read your post from last night.  I would have him talk to Kalie Rose too.  The way he acted and what he said could cause her to blame herself if god forbid anything ever did happen to your marriage.  SHe needs to know it was his fault and not hers.

belle204

That would so not fly. It's nice he recognizes ehe was wrong but floweres don't buy forgiveness. He needs to cut that sh*t out and correct his behavior. A poor example for the kids. GL girl.

jshf

I'm glad you guys will get counseling!  Best of luck!

sarahjared

Glad you are going to counseling and not letting him get out of it.  At least he knows he did wrong.