So I have a dilemma. My Nana is very sick with dementia. She doesn't know who I am anymore and it's really hard for me emotionally to visit her. The nursing home sent her to the hospital because they thought she had pneumonia. She ended up having a bunch of other infections a UTI, sinus and some type of skin infection calls MRSA. I really wanted to go visit her today because it was my birthday but my Dad is very against me going to see her while she has this infection.
What do you all know about the MRSA? They are saying she is not getting better and that the kind of MRSA she has cannot be fixed with antibiotics. I don't want to miss my chance to say good bye but I don't want to put my baby at risk of us getting sick either. I am so torn and so emotional when I think about my options.
Re: Mrsa Infection??
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother - I totally hear you about wanting to have a chance to say your goodbyes and at the same time it makes sense to be careful. I'm sure that it's what she would have wanted for you too. Would there be time for you to check in with your doc or other medical professional to see what they think? With something as serious as mrsa you'd probably do well to get their take on it to be on the safe side.
Whether you can or can't go see her in person, I wish you a time of good memories of her and warmest wishes for comfort and peace during her coming passing.
You want to stay VERY, VERY far away from anyone with MRSA (unless you research it and take necessary precautions). It is a form of staph infection that can be fatal. It is VERY hard to get rid of once you get it. Requires hospitalization in most cases, etc.
Be cautious. Please.
ETA: I'm very sorry for your situation. My grandmother (who raised me along side my mother) went through the same situation. She had severe dimentia. I won't tell you the details has to how the situations are so similar, however if you need a non biased stranger to lean on..I get it.
https://www.whatismrsa.net/
I thought this may help. I dont know much about it other than its a Staph infection and that its pretty contagious. While I understand you want to go see her and all, but its risky. Maybe see about if you can go and wear a face mask and not touch her? I'm really not sure, but I hope it all works out in the end! GL!
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Ditto this comment. My dad was in the hospital dying when I was 4 1/2 months pregnant. He had other issues but also had a MRSA infection. The doctors were very clear that it was ok to see him to say goodbye as long as I used Purell and wore a gown, gloves and because I was pregnant, a mask. My dad was a doctor and the doctors treating him were doctors my dad trained and who adored him. They would have never let me in to see him if it would have harmed his grandchild. As hard as it was, I was glad to be able to be there in the end. Go see your Nana- just Purell and wear appropriate gear.
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