Am I the only one here who doesn't really have a bedtime schedule,
then? We just tend to go by his cues. Bedtime for him is generally
around 11pm, which is when he does his long stretch. He is usually up for the day between 8-9am. He used to STTN but now with the 4 month wakeful, he wakes once or twice.
He still naps very frequently during the day- probably 5-6 naps a day.
We don't mind going by his schedule so I didn't really think there was anything wrong with not structuring things.
rock him to sleep when he gets sleepy and starts to rub his eyes, or
he'll fall asleep on his last bottle and we'll put him down.