I noticed that you listed 'reliable' as one of your requirements. I know many people who go to home centers they love, but I wouldn't always consider them the most reliable. If the daycare lady wakes up in the morning with a fever, you might get a phone call at 6:30 am that daycare is closed that day. Some in-home providers try to find back-up care, others don't. In-home centers also generally take paid vacation (both yours and theirs) where-as at a center you will never have to worry about their staffing - that is their worry. (though both places you usually have to pay whether you are there or not)
There are pluses and minuses to both options, but I have some friends that didn't realize the in-home 'minuses' until they were late to work one day, so I just wanted to point that out
The reasons that you mentioned is why we were leaning toward a center. Being late to work really is not an option for me (I am a teacher, cannot leave the kids alone!). Thanks :-)
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I hated searching for daycare. With that said, we knew we didn't want a center as for some employees 'it's just a job.' Anyway, we got a ton of referrals but unfortunately no one had an infant opening. So, I know it sounds scary, but I searched craigslist. I ending up finding a wonderful in home daycare.
BFP#1: 9.16.08 DD: 5.28.09
BFP#2: 7.10.11 MMC: 8.3.11 D&C: 8.29.11
BFP#3: 12.5.11 MC: 12.22.11
BFP#4: 2.14.12 MMC: 3.8.12 D&C: 3.13.12 Loss due to Trisomy 16
BFP#5: 6.11.12 MC: 6.28.12 Loss due to Triploidy
RPL BW, Sonohystogram, Chromosome testing on DH and myself = everything is normal
BFP#6: 12.4.12 EDD: 8.16.13
Things I did different with this pregnancy:
1. Waited TTC until after I had 3 normal menstrual cycles.
2. Got a new OB - amazing man who listened!
3. 200 mg progesterone until 12 weeks
4. Daily lovenox injections
EP has a referral system. You can check on cragslist for it and email the coordinator. Minnetonka also has a coordinator. I can give you the contact info if you want to send me a pm. I personally didn't have any luck with the above but you might have better luck since you are looking at a different time than I was.
I also have rates to a couple different centers I looked into in EP/Mtka.
Good luck!
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Re: daycare...where to start?
Start here to get a list of licensed places
https://www.mnchildcare.org/
I noticed that you listed 'reliable' as one of your requirements. I know many people who go to home centers they love, but I wouldn't always consider them the most reliable. If the daycare lady wakes up in the morning with a fever, you might get a phone call at 6:30 am that daycare is closed that day. Some in-home providers try to find back-up care, others don't. In-home centers also generally take paid vacation (both yours and theirs) where-as at a center you will never have to worry about their staffing - that is their worry. (though both places you usually have to pay whether you are there or not)
There are pluses and minuses to both options, but I have some friends that didn't realize the in-home 'minuses' until they were late to work one day, so I just wanted to point that out
Good luck finding care that you love!
A Little Bird and a Monkey Butt
BFP#2: 7.10.11 MMC: 8.3.11 D&C: 8.29.11
BFP#3: 12.5.11 MC: 12.22.11
BFP#4: 2.14.12 MMC: 3.8.12 D&C: 3.13.12 Loss due to Trisomy 16
BFP#5: 6.11.12 MC: 6.28.12 Loss due to Triploidy
RPL BW, Sonohystogram, Chromosome testing on DH and myself = everything is normal
BFP#6: 12.4.12 EDD: 8.16.13
Things I did different with this pregnancy:
1. Waited TTC until after I had 3 normal menstrual cycles.
2. Got a new OB - amazing man who listened!
3. 200 mg progesterone until 12 weeks
4. Daily lovenox injections
EP has a referral system. You can check on cragslist for it and email the coordinator. Minnetonka also has a coordinator. I can give you the contact info if you want to send me a pm. I personally didn't have any luck with the above but you might have better luck since you are looking at a different time than I was.
I also have rates to a couple different centers I looked into in EP/Mtka.
Good luck!