My DH is My Roomate Support Group Check-in

armandos_girl

:sets out lemonade and gingersnaps and waits:

lo45fd98wq32

*rushes in and plops down* My name is Isha, and my DH is my roommate.

LucyAnnie

::opens door steps in and sits down::

My name is LA.  My husband is my roommate.  Wait, or am I the live in maid?  I can't tell the difference.  

leslie13510

::sets brownies on the refreshment table::

Hi, my name is Leslie and my DH is my roommate. 

luv2cdolfinz

My DH is my roommate as well. ::sigh::

OSUtiff

I'm from 3-6 but this just feels right.

 

::sips lemonade and looks around, wonders if anyone will sit by me::

two-pink-shoes

Hi, I'm TPS and my DH is my roommate.  Except that he keeps hitting on me even though I feel like ass.  WTF?

armandos_girl

My name is Armandos and my DH is my roomate.  So much so that I have no idea whether the option to show when we have sex is on or not on FF.  It wouldn't matter either way.

lo45fd98wq32

two-pink-shoes:

Hi, I'm TPS and my DH is my roommate.  Except that he keeps hitting on me even though I feel like ass.  WTF?

I know that I'd be thrilled if my DH was hitting on me at all.

Melaneigh1

I brought fresh brewed mint iced tea.

And my DH is my roommate.

bancbev

:backs slowly out of room:

luv2cdolfinz

AuntIsha:

two-pink-shoes:

Hi, I'm TPS and my DH is my roommate.  Except that he keeps hitting on me even though I feel like ass.  WTF?

I know that I'd be thrilled if my DH was hitting on me at all.

Exactly this.

FrauKlein

Hi, I'm FK and my husband isn't even my roommate since we no longer share a budoir.  He's my housemate.

leslie13510

bancbev:

:backs slowly out of room:

Run away while you still can! 

luv2cdolfinz

bancbev:

:backs slowly out of room:

Nothing like rubbing it in... lol

luv2cdolfinz

Melaneigh:

I brought fresh brewed mint iced tea.

And my DH is my roommate.

You're doing better than I am. I only know this because you're only 4 weeks KU according to your ticker. lol

aggie_teacher

AuntIsha:

*rushes in and plops down* My name is Isha, and my DH is my roommate.

My name Aggie and this is one of the main reasons we're getting a divorce.  

mrs.maybride

Howdy. 

 

::passes out the vodka shooters::

weelass24

aggie_teacher:

AuntIsha:

*rushes in and plops down* My name is Isha, and my DH is my roommate.

My name Aggie and this is one of the main reasons we're getting a divorce.  

Wait, what?

leslie13510

I have to admit I find our lack of romance these days to be kind of funny.  Before having kids we were um... very sexually oriented as a couple.  I didn't understand how having kids could change that so drastically.  I mean yeah I figured we'd go from having sex almost every day to just 2-3 times a week because we wouldn't have time or we'd be tired, but I could have never imagined sex going so far on the back burner.  Now in a good month we have sex 1-3 times.  I also never imagined that I'd be ok with that before having kids.  The thought of lacking a sexual relationship made me want to cry in the pre-kid days.  Now we're both so exhausted though that neither of us want to.  Well, we WANT to but we don't because the extra 30-45 minutes of sleep is more important.  LOL

And we have "easy" babies!  OMG I can't imagine if they were high needs infants.  DH and I would never touch each other.

leslie13510

weelass24:

aggie_teacher:

AuntIsha:

*rushes in and plops down* My name is Isha, and my DH is my roommate.

My name Aggie and this is one of the main reasons we're getting a divorce.  

Wait, what?

This!  Aggie what's up?

Mrs.Tabigail

::Passes out cupcakes::

My name is Mrs.T and my H isn't even my roommate, he is sleeping on the couch as of last night. Sigh...

aerotigergirl

We're not in a roommate phase right now, but we have been at times since we got married.

Aside from sexitime, which, let's face it, can be really awkward and/or forced if you're in the roommate phase, what ways have you found to get back out of the roommate phase? We usually just have to have a knock-down, drag-out fight for the roommate phase to end. And that is just very inconvenient.

lo45fd98wq32

We have never been very sex-crazed, but now it's moved to basically nonexistant.

StephanieBride1

My name is Stephanie, and I wish my DH was NOT my roommate.

staycee

:::sheepishly joins group:::

MrsBro6116

OSUtiff:

I'm from 3-6 but this just feels right.

 

 

Hi I'm MrsBro, my DH is my roommate.

 

I'm also from 3-6 but I brought Godiva chocolates and chocolate covered strawberries to the meeting.

aggie_teacher

StephanieBride1:

My name is Stephanie, and I wish my DH was NOT my roommate.

The left side of my queen sized bed is ready and waiting, lovah.  

Ashleyyyyy

My name is Ashley, and sadly, my DH is my roommate. It makes me want to cry right now too.

leslie13510

Welcome 3-6'ers. 

StephanieBride1

aggie_teacher:

StephanieBride1:

My name is Stephanie, and I wish my DH was NOT my roommate.

The left side of my queen sized bed is ready and waiting, lovah.  

I have a king, room for you and the boy to join me How did you know I slept on the Left side?! It was meant to be! 

aggie_teacher

StephanieBride1:

aggie_teacher:

StephanieBride1:

My name is Stephanie, and I wish my DH was NOT my roommate.

The left side of my queen sized bed is ready and waiting, lovah.  

I have a king, room for you and the boy to join me How did you know I slept on the Left side?! It was meant to be! 

Yessssssssss. I heart snow. And your bewbs.  

StephanieBride1

aggie_teacher:

StephanieBride1:

aggie_teacher:

StephanieBride1:

My name is Stephanie, and I wish my DH was NOT my roommate.

The left side of my queen sized bed is ready and waiting, lovah.  

I have a king, room for you and the boy to join me How did you know I slept on the Left side?! It was meant to be! 

Yessssssssss. I heart snow. And your bewbs.  

There is lots of snow, but sadly my boobs are lacking in their former glory. But I'm all yours! 

loveumike

I am with all of you and I am scared.  DH is a great guy, but we don't feel like a couple anymore.  It's sad.  Sometimes I feel like the only thing keeping us together is the thought of spending every other Xmas without DD.

lo45fd98wq32

Whenever I tell him that this is how I am feeling, he gets really upset (crying) etc because he always loves me no matter what and doesn't see how I feel this way. it's like he's complacent or ok with the status quo and doesn't see a reason to work for anything more.

loveumike

AuntIsha:

We have never been very sex-crazed, but now it's moved to basically nonexistant.

This is us exactly.  How do we get back to non-roommates?  I want to feel passion again.  i want to feel alive again!!

Ashleyyyyy

loveumike:

AuntIsha:

We have never been very sex-crazed, but now it's moved to basically nonexistant.

This is us exactly.  How do we get back to non-roommates?  I want to feel passion again.  i want to feel alive again!!

This. I NEED to know.

MandyBrownNoser

AuntIsha:

We have never been very sex-crazed, but now it's moved to basically nonexistant.

This.

Kristinmo

leslie13510:

I have to admit I find our lack of romance these days to be kind of funny.  Before having kids we were um... very sexually oriented as a couple.  I didn't understand how having kids could change that so drastically.  I mean yeah I figured we'd go from having sex almost every day to just 2-3 times a week because we wouldn't have time or we'd be tired, but I could have never imagined sex going so far on the back burner.  Now in a good month we have sex 1-3 times.  I also never imagined that I'd be ok with that before having kids.  The thought of lacking a sexual relationship made me want to cry in the pre-kid days.  Now we're both so exhausted though that neither of us want to.  Well, we WANT to but we don't because the extra 30-45 minutes of sleep is more important.  LOL

And we have "easy" babies!  OMG I can't imagine if they were high needs infants.  DH and I would never touch each other.

All of this!  Except we only have one!