PPD and pregnant again?

KimboRambo

I had PPD with my first, but I didn't do anything about it...HUGE mistake. I was miserable for months. And I quickly realized that next time around I would for sure get help quicker.

Just found out I'm pregnant again...totally unplanned, considering I was on the pill. I'm really angry and upset, esp because things are really difficult for us right now with jobs and money. And I know I'm high risk for ppd again, but I'm almost envisioning it more as PRE-partum depression, starting like now. My husband is really worried about how I'm going to get through the next 8 months, let alone after the baby is born.

Anyone else in this situation? I don't know what to do, or if any kinds of meds are safe while pregnant...would really appreciate any advice or thoughts. 

CKLee1107

There are some meds that are safer while pregnant for depression.  Talk to your OB asap about the options if you are already feeling depressed.  I had regular depression and was on meds before getting pg but my meds weren't safe for 3rd tri so I weaned off before the pg and stuck it out.  It was harder than I cared to admit at the time and I should have spoke up to my OB to find something to help me while I was pg...

Now I am back on my meds because it hit even harder after my little girl got here (I was told it was PPD on top of my normal depression) and I feel so much better and have really started bonding and feeling like a mommy finally.

Good luck!

EnglishMajor03

This is similar to me...didn't get treated right away with #1 and then oops!  Pg with #2.  I was on a depression medication when I got pg and continued to take it.  I also sought out counseling.  DD#1 was born with SN so there was a lot for me to talk through.  If you're angry and stressed about money/work then you should definitely try to talk it out with someone....DH or otherwise.

*speedracer*

like you i had pretty bad PPD with my first and while the second kid was planned, i asked about it at my first prenatal visit because i was paranoid.  the nurse confirmed that since i had a history of it there was a higher than normal chance i'd get it again.  i asked her about medications, she said to let them know when i think i need them.  i've noticed some changes in myself that make me think i need to get back on meds sooner rather than wait for the baby to be born.

i had my therapist appt lined up for a few weeks before the baby is born but now i'm considering calling to see if i can move it up.  ask your drs about safe meds while PG, they are out there for sure!

septbaby2008

I would get counseling while you are pregnant.