If you don't mind my asking how did you ladies make the decision to adopt? I know many of you have struggled w/ IF but what about those who have there own kids how did you make the decision? Dh and I are discussing our options as far as having another vs. adopting. I had two complicated pg and two preemie babies. We are very lucky that neither of them have had any complications from being preemie and my mfm is optimistic if we wanted to try again. So what things did you take into consideration when making this decision?