fights

i*heart*him

do you fight a lot more with DH now that LO is here?

 

mandolynn81

less

MrsSandro

yep less. But we never really fought much before. We get fustrated on occasion but not much of a fighting couple.

octoberbella

more at first...less now that we have gotten into a good rhythm.  we both get cranky when we are exhausted. 

kellyswofford

more for sure, always about shared responsibility with DD

EJDIII

Not really. Never fought before and still don't. We're very supportive of each other and talk about the difficulties of caring for an infant and the struggles/stress each of us face. For him he is the "bread winner" and sole provider-which puts a lot of pressure on him psychologically. For me I'm LO's caretaker a good 90% of the time which can be very hard. He does a lot for DS when he comes home from work, which helps me a lot, but it is still stressful to be a SAHM. Just as it's stressful on him to be responsible for all of our bills. In sum, we talk everything out and are each other's best friend-which helps tremendously.?

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moPOETRYtion

we NEVER fought before DD was here. now i notice i am snappy with him, but that's because he seems to think there are 42 hours in a day instead of 24, so i end up running around like a chicken with my head cut off doing almost everything while he just 'chills' and hangs out with DD.

Shlei

Much less nowadays

prettipenny

Way more now