My husband's job involves dealing with issues that arise in other countries. Haiti is one of the countries he is specifically involved in supervising of operations.
The first thing I thought of when I heard news of the earthquake was, "Great, I bet DH will be working even longer hours now!". I was right as he has been working 12+ hours a day, everyday, since the tragedy.
I am very ashamed that was my first reaction.
Re: My FFFC regarding Haiti
You feel bad about it though. There are many people out there that wouldn't, and they should feel ashamed imo.