FFFC

orleyl

I will start since, its 12:10am here and officially Friday.

DH sleeps in the other room! Yep, when LO was a newborn and waking up lots, he moved to the guest room to get some sleep for work and is still there even though she typically sttn. Our relationship is fine and we still have sex. The thing is I actually really like having my own bed and getting to bump and watch tv in bed. I know it seems weird and unhealthy but it is working for us.

water-fairy

It does seem weird but you are probably having more sex than us, even though we sleep in the same bed. The last 2.5m have been so hard we may have had sex once. DS is making sure we don't even attempt to give him a sibling.

lkich

DH sleeps downstairs on the couch. He's afraid of squishing DS when he's in our bed and since he's yet to sleep all night in his crib it it just hasn't changed. But like you our relationship isn't strained by it. He likes being able to sleep without getting woken up and I like having the room.

Kalig02

I love my DH, but i actually wouln't mind if he slept in the other room sometimes! we have a king size bed and he for some reason always ends up on my side of the bed or he will steal my body pillow, it drives me crazy! i spend most of the night pushing him back to his side

sgrl

My husband's fallen asleep on the couch for the past two nights, and he's asleep on the couch now. I do like having him in the bed with me though. He sleeps to my right, and then the baby is in the PNP on my left. I like being in the middle.

ngagne

water-fairy:

It does seem weird but you are probably having more sex than us, even though we sleep in the same bed. The last 2.5m have been so hard we may have had sex once. DS is making sure we don't even attempt to give him a sibling.

Love the pic of you and your LO in your siggy.  So cute! 

ZaIrery

Wait; what is this "sex" of which you speak lol... I can't even remember the last time DH and I were intimate, and we share the same bed... so I don't think what you are doing is necessarily unhealthy. No flames here.

We, on the other hand, have some issues to work through...

 

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madameladauphine

ZaIrery:

Wait; what is this "sex" of which you speak lol... I can't even remember the last time DH and I were intimate, and we share the same bed... so I don't think what you are doing is necessarily unhealthy. No flames here.

We, on the other hand, have some issues to work through...

 

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monica93555

I am so friggin happy I'm not the only one! I've been having complete guilt from this like we're an incompetent old couple. My thing is that he snores so loud. I don't know how I ever got use to it before but now I can't get use to it. Plus, I co sleep with my son. I never intended this to happen but it is what it is and I actually enjoy it.

And as for the sex... we still do it. Matter of fact it almost makes it more adventurous being that we have sex and then I go back to "my room". Sorry for the tmi

Scooter359

We had it worked out for the first 2 months where I was sleeping on the couch or the guest room with LOs pnp with me. It got to a point where I was super upset, feeling like I was doing everything alone and that we werent happy. We now share a bed again because of my melt down.It is sometimes a hassle though, If Mason makes a peep I have to take him out then bring him back in, sometimes I just stay on the couch when im really tired still.

A&K+J

No flames here. I WISH we had a spare bedroom DH could relocate to. I think some space would do us both a world of good right now.

Mabzie

Nope, no flames here.  Dh and I take turns sleeping on the couch.  For some reason the couch is better on our backs.