Adoption

candm

Did your kids speak any english? Did you speak any of their language? How has that been going?
Married on 3.20.2004. It took 30 month, 2 failed adoptions and IVF for our first miracle. We have had 9 foster kids since he was born and started the domestic adoption process when he was 10 month old, we had 4 failed matches in that time. After our daughter was born we brought her home and spent 2 weeks fearing we might lose her because of complications that came up. But Praise God all went through and she is ours forever! Expecting again after IVF Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
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  • The kids could count to 10 and recite their ABC's. They knew a few phrases like "it's ok" and "I love you", but that is it. I'd say total, their vocabulary was around 20 words if you didn't count 1-10. They picked it up AMAZINGLY fast. Both are in school now (pre-school and kindergarten) and although they do not speak proper English, they have no problems communicating with their teachers and classmates.

    DH and I had learned a small about of Creole from a Creole for adoptive families CD. I knew how to say most articles of clothing, eating terms, wellness terms and other things like that. And we also kind of made up our own language through gestures. The whole family picked up certain creole phrases. I am now trying to get through to S&D that we want them to retain their Creole (I fear they are already starting to lose it). The hard part is they don't really see the distinction between Creole and English--to them it's just talking to be understood. For example, the other day I asked them how you say "thank you" in Creole. They could not think for the life of them how to say it. But when I said "Mesi" they were like "oh yeah." They just have a hard time not thinking of English and Creole as the same language.

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