DH and I are not agreeing about this so I wanted to ask what the etiqutte is about thank you notes.
DH says we should send them with the birth annoucements after the baby is born. That's how we have gotten most thank you cards from friends.
But most of these people had their shower fairly close to the birth. I am having 2 showers - 1 at 28 weeks and 1 at 31 weeks. To me, waiting for the baby to be born, getting pics and announcements done and then sending everything, seems like a long time to wait to send thank you cards.
What do you all think?
Re: Thank you note etiquette
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DS dx with celiac disease 5/28/10
I'm not sure how the 2 are related? There is a thank you note for the gift (which is a must) and then a birth announcement. A thank you note is an etiquette requirement, the birth announcement is not.
Did your friends send the birth annoucement in lieu of a thank you note? Or did they scrawl "thanks for the gift" on the back of the annoucement?
Ones we got together had a thank you card in teh envelope with the announcement.
Thanks everyone - I will be buying my cards this week and start writing for the gifts I have already received.
Great!
Since your DH had such strong opinions on this, he should help with the thank you cards. Put him to work!
This. You should get your thank you cards out asap and do the birth announcements seperately.