I've been lurking for the past couple of months because my DH and I were planning to just "wing it" and see what happens. I've been charting for 2 years in order to avoid pregnancy, so I'm very familiar with my cycles.
Well, this cycle I was in the fertile phase with creamy CM. We decided not to use protection and see what happens. Ovusoft (software that comes with TCOYF) confirmed ovulation on day 19. This is within the normal range for me (usually ovulate CD 17-19). We had sex on CD 14. My normal luteal phase length is 10-12 days and I usually spot a couple of days before my period starts.
I'm currently 12 DPO with no spotting and no other signs of AF except breast tenderness. So, my question is...would you test? Also, if I test, should I tell my husband before or make a surprise announcement if it's a BFP? How did you all tell your DHs? TIA