FFFC!

bnljane1988

nbjenni:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

Up until a few weeks ago, everyone thought Tiger Woods was an upstanding guy, good husband and great father. Some people are really good at lying & sneaking. I'm pretty awesome, so I don't worry what you think.

I would hope that his wife knew him better than the the public.

And with that - my divorce could be final by the end of this month. I am so unbelievably happy I could tap dance right now. Would it be totally tacky to make a ticker?

Lol.  Nope.  Let's see that ticker!

cicija1

bnljane1988:

AudreyGolightly:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

Wow, it must be awesome to be you. Can you teach me how to make perfect choices my entire life and never screw up?

LOL.  Obviously I'm not perfect if I judge people.

 

Next time i'm about to make decision I will call you to make sure it's the right one... because there is NO WAY anything could ever change after you make decision

tre777

AudreyGolightly:

tre777:

mabst196:

Whenever someone on here talks about their husband being a DB, I look to see if there is a pic of him in her profile or blog and look at him to see if he looks like a DB to me.

ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!!

DB look just like everybody else (a lot of the time). That's how nice people wind up marrying DBs. If DBs had a certain "look" nobody would marry a DB.

 

I know, but I still look.

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AudreyGolightly:

tre777:

mabst196:

 

DB look just like everybody else (a lot of the time). That's how nice people wind up marrying DBs. If DBs had a certain "look" nobody would marry a DB.

BTW, DBs sometimes look like this (I'll be deleting this later b/c it's kind of mean but for your temporary viewing pleasure):

 

KhloesMom

nbjenni:

And with that - my divorce could be final by the end of this month. I am so unbelievably happy I could tap dance right now. Would it be totally tacky to make a ticker?

Nope, given your situation, it's completely appropriate. We'll all raise a glass with you when it's a done-deal!

kelbrian

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

I judge idiots like you

Men who control and abuse are great at hiding these lovely character traits. Why do you think friends and family are usually surprised when a couple splits because the husband is a douche bag? Because the douche bag is good at making everyone think he is an upstanding citizen.

I've known women who have been with men that beat them, and no one is the wiser. These men are conniving, and they are good at hiding what they do.

Why do you think that the wife of the man who sexually assaulted me is still with him? Because she has no idea what kind of man he really is. He is a 'beloved' teacher in the community, an elder in his church who also sings in the choir, and he has two children. 

No one would think that he is sexually assaulting prepubescent children, but guess what? He is.

So don't you dare judge these women. Because you have no freaking clue what their lives are like.

My mother was one of them. She married my father not knowing that he was going to break her heart over and over again. He was controlling, manipulative, and not a good candidate for a husband or the father of her children. But he was damn good at making other people believe that he was.

bnljane1988

cicija1:

bnljane1988:

AudreyGolightly:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

Wow, it must be awesome to be you. Can you teach me how to make perfect choices my entire life and never screw up?

LOL.  Obviously I'm not perfect if I judge people.

 

Next time i'm about to make decision I will call you to make sure it's the right one... because there is NO WAY anything could ever change after you make decision

I said I judge.  I didn't say I was right or that it made me a good person.  But feel free to run your life-decisions by me.  

bnljane1988

kelbrian:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

I judge idiots like you

Men who control and abuse are great at hiding these lovely character traits. Why do you think friends and family are usually surprised when a couple splits because the husband is a douche bag? Because the douche bag is good at making everyone think he is an upstanding citizen.

I've known women who have been with men that beat them, and no one is the wiser. These men are conniving, and they are good at hiding what they do.

Why do you think that the wife of the man who sexually assaulted me is still with him? Because she has no idea what kind of man he really is. He is a 'beloved' teacher in the community, an elder in his church who also sings in the choir, and he has two children. 

No one would think that he is sexually assaulting prepubescent children, but guess what? He is.

So don't you dare judge these women. Because you have no freaking clue what their lives are like.

My mother was one of them. She married my father not knowing that he was going to break her heart over and over again. He was controlling, manipulative, and not a good candidate for a husband or the father of her children. But he was damn good at making other people believe that he was.

nice.

nbjenni

bnljane1988 - you just hit a sore subject for some of us on here. Like it or not, 50% or more of the posters on here will end up divorced for some reason or another. I'm fairly sure the majority of us didn't walk down the aisle thinking of this. But let's all just let it die and post better FFFC. Like about peeing in diapers while driving, or moms finding dildos or some crap.

kgb1411

turtlesmom:

Sometimes people turn out to be completely different than who they were, or who they portrayed themselves to be. 

This is why you should always marry for looks or money.  At least you can't fake it.  (kidding) 

violetvirgo

kelbrian:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

I judge idiots like you

Men who control and abuse are great at hiding these lovely character traits. Why do you think friends and family are usually surprised when a couple splits because the husband is a douche bag? Because the douche bag is good at making everyone think he is an upstanding citizen.

I've known women who have been with men that beat them, and no one is the wiser. These men are conniving, and they are good at hiding what they do.

Why do you think that the wife of the man who sexually assaulted me is still with him? Because she has no idea what kind of man he really is. He is a 'beloved' teacher in the community, an elder in his church who also sings in the choir, and he has two children. 

No one would think that he is sexually assaulting prepubescent children, but guess what? He is.

So don't you dare judge these women. Because you have no freaking clue what their lives are like.

My mother was one of them. She married my father not knowing that he was going to break her heart over and over again. He was controlling, manipulative, and not a good candidate for a husband or the father of her children. But he was damn good at making other people believe that he was.

i'm really sorry that this happened to you, but i really hope he isn't STILL assulting children....?  and why doesn't your mom know?  

bnljane1988

kgb1411:

turtlesmom:

Sometimes people turn out to be completely different than who they were, or who they portrayed themselves to be. 

This is why you should always marry for looks or money.  At least you can't fake it.  (kidding) 

LOL.  That's my plan for my next marriage. Hee!

YouAreMyILoveYou

Tomorrow is Olivia's first birthday & birthday "party." And by party, I really mean that we are having 8 family members over for tacos & cake. I don't even have any decorations.

I went all out for every one of Isabella's birthday parties... but after doing her 4ht b-day on 12/15 (included 3 different parties over the span of a week) and Christmas and New Years, I just can't stomach any more family gatherings. So, Olivia is getting screwed. At least she won't remember it.

 

Amrice78

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

kelbrian

violetvirgo:

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i'm really sorry that this happened to you, but i really hope he isn't STILL assulting children....?  and why doesn't your mom know?  

I suppose that should have been 'was.' I don't know what happened with him. We ended up moving, and she didn't find out until I was in high school. 

I still feel guilty for not doing anything. He could still be sexually assaulting children for all I know. But I was a child. I didn't know jack about pressing charges, and by the time I did, I was too depressed to do anything about it.

It's something that I am still ashamed about and probably always will be. 

JessMil10

When DD wakes up at night (which is maybe once a week if that) I pretend not to hear her.  She is perfectly capable of soothing herself back to sleep but it drives DH nuts and he goes and rocks her.  SO I "sleep hard" and let him get up.

In the morning, if I don't have work, I will let Brooke fuss in her crib for 10-15 minutes sometimes.  I am so horrible at getting out of bed.  Mostly she just talks or jumps up and down, but sometimes she is crying.

 

EuroChick

Amrice78:

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

Get it "tied off",  it is a mild operation out patient and trust me it makes a world of difference.  No one should have to suffer like that.

fIowerchild

AudreyGolightly:

AudreyGolightly:

tre777:

mabst196:

 

DB look just like everybody else (a lot of the time). That's how nice people wind up marrying DBs. If DBs had a certain "look" nobody would marry a DB.

BTW, DBs sometimes look like this (I'll be deleting this later b/c it's kind of mean but for your temporary viewing pleasure):

OMG Hilarious.  (Note I didn't quote your picture so you could take it down later.)

violetvirgo

kelbrian:

violetvirgo:

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i'm really sorry that this happened to you, but i really hope he isn't STILL assulting children....?  and why doesn't your mom know?  

I suppose that should have been 'was.' I don't know what happened with him. We ended up moving, and she didn't find out until I was in high school. 

I still feel guilty for not doing anything. He could still be sexually assaulting children for all I know. But I was a child. I didn't know jack about pressing charges, and by the time I did, I was too depressed to do anything about it.

It's something that I am still ashamed about and probably always will be. 

oh no, i hope you don't think i was insinuating that you didn't "do anything".  I was just curious.  i'm so sorry - that's really awful and i imagine most kids don't really know what to do in that situation  

 

mabst196

Amrice78:

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

 You need to see a doctor for something like this. I don't think it will be going away on its own.

Judah'sMommy

I'm supposed to quit smoking today (I said I'd quit the day I got my first semester grades), but I really don't want to.  I wish there was a magic pill I could take that would let me skip all the hard work that quitting's going to be for me.  I know it's a nasty habit, but I'd be lying if I said I don't love smoking.  I love the cutie in my siggy more, but gee does this blow.  I'm sad about it.  Smoking has been my thing for almost 10 years.  It feels like a breakup. lol

Amrice78

mabst196:

Amrice78:

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

 You need to see a doctor for something like this. I don't think it will be going away on its own.

I have an OB appointment Monday - is it something she can take care of?

I didn't get these with Michael.

fIowerchild

bnljane1988:

kelbrian:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

I judge idiots like you

nice.

I'm sorry, but you deserve the beating. You *really* stepped in it.

wcp

ABMcKinney:

Robbie and I were in the car yesterday driving. Someone beeped their horn (not at me) and Robbie yelled "A$$hole!!! I think I need to maybe start watching my mouth.

As far as the suicide goes, I don't think it's fair to be mad at the person. The place they are in doesn't allow them to see or think of others.

LOL.  I remember when my older son was about 2 y.o. he was sitting of the front seat of the car and put his hand on the steering wheel and yelled "beep, beep!  what are you waiting for?!" I don't know where he got that from...

My confession - On Christmas morning MIL hands me the phone to talk to SIL and wish her a Merry Christmas as we're getting ready to open gifts.  As I'm talking I see she is handing both of my sons their first Christmas gifts to open.  Thanks MIL, I really would have loved to experience them opening their Santa gifts, too.  I made sure she saw my stink eye.

kgb1411

JessMil10:

When DD wakes up at night (which is maybe once a week if that) I pretend not to hear her.  She is perfectly capable of soothing herself back to sleep but it drives DH nuts and he goes and rocks her.  SO I "sleep hard" and let him get up.

In the morning, if I don't have work, I will let Brooke fuss in her crib for 10-15 minutes sometimes.  I am so horrible at getting out of bed.  Mostly she just talks or jumps up and down, but sometimes she is crying.

 

I do both of these things.  You aren't alone.  Sometimes the baby will wake up DS at night.  DS just cries for about 5 minutes and goes back to sleep.  If DH gets up and goes in there, the whole ordeal can last for a half hour.

I am also very guilty of "hitting the snooze" in my mind when I hear DS get up in the am, and giving myself another 10 minutes in bed.

fIowerchild

Amrice78:

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

The Prep H helped my grape, but it took about 3 days. GL.

JessMil10

This is PR but I'll write it here.  We are headed to the Dells in a few weeks and I am not counting some water slides out of my fun, even though pregnant women really shouldn't go on them.  I have a whole list of excuses ready lol.

bnljane1988

fIowerchild:

bnljane1988:

kelbrian:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

I judge idiots like you

nice.

I'm sorry, but you deserve the beating. You *really* stepped in it.

There's a way to express your opinion without name-calling.

mabst196

Amrice78:

mabst196:

Amrice78:

All I've got is TMI, but I'll share anyway and maybe get some suggestions.

I have a hemorrhoid the size of a grape (no exaggeration) and I'm SO uncomfortable.  The tuck's pads don't seem to be working at all.  How does one get rid of a hemorrhoid and should I get some Prep H on the way home?

 You need to see a doctor for something like this. I don't think it will be going away on its own.

I have an OB appointment Monday - is it something she can take care of?

I didn't get these with Michael.

Your OB is a good place to start. She may refer you to a gastroenterologist or proctologist if they think you need it.

boo-bitz

My B day is in 9 days. Last year DH went car shopping with his mother (for his mother i might add as well) and got an oil change on my birthday. I spent the day alone with our 6 month old baby (7 am when DD got up) and he couldn;t understand why I didn;t even want to talk to him when he showed up at 7:30 pm (MIL took a while deciding what colour paint for her car...) I was super PO'd because I let him have his birthday to himself: sleep in, have whatever he wanted for dinner - you name it. I told him next time he books a change on my B-day we will be rescheduling...

My FFFC is that I secretly hope DD will wake up at like 5 am on my B-day to make up for the piiiss poor one I had last year.

SuperCuteBenz

jenifairies:

kgb --- good  idea! sign me up (on list of shooters, not shootees).

As for my own - DD woke up at 4:30 this morning (thanks to my DH who thinks his alarm has to be set to "wake the dead"). I'm about to go set up the pnp to block her in the living room so I know there's nothing that can hurt her, turn on nick jr, and go to sleep on the couch. If she lets me. I accidentally fell asleep at 3am up with her last week and she emptied the contents of her bookshelf on me. I'll be waiting on my mother of the year award.

I accidentally fell asleep with DD in the living room about 2 weeks ago. Ours is really child proof ( no furniture besides couch, chair, ottoman), so there wasn't anything for her to get into. However, she did have crayons and proceeded to color all over our tv. Poor DH.

mattnlinz03

ABMcKinney:

Robbie and I were in the car yesterday driving. Someone beeped their horn (not at me) and Robbie yelled "A$$hole!!! I think I need to maybe start watching my mouth.

LOL!  That is pretty funny and I am just waiting for this to happen in my house.

My confession is I don't understand people that have eating disorders and how they can do something like that to their bodies.  I recently found out that I have ulcerative colitis. I was in the hospital for 9 days, on a liquid diet for over a month and have been on a strict diet since then.  I lost 30 pounds (which I didn't have to lose), was down to 8% body fat, my skin was transparent, my hair was breaking off and falling out.  Overall I was obviously not healthy but not by my doing.  It then occurred to me that people do this to themselves on purpose and it just blows me away.   

mabst196

mattnlinz03:

ABMcKinney:

Robbie and I were in the car yesterday driving. Someone beeped their horn (not at me) and Robbie yelled "A$$hole!!! I think I need to maybe start watching my mouth.

LOL!  That is pretty funny and I am just waiting for this to happen in my house.

My confession is I don't understand people that have eating disorders and how they can do something like that to their bodies.  I recently found out that I have ulcerative colitis. I was in the hospital for 9 days, on a liquid diet for over a month and have been on a strict diet since then.  I lost 30 pounds (which I didn't have to lose), was down to 8% body fat, my skin was transparent, my hair was breaking off and falling out.  Overall I was obviously not healthy but not by my doing.  It then occurred to me that people do this to themselves on purpose and it just blows me away.   

Eating disorders are a mental illness just like depression, schizophrenia, anxiety etc. Wasn't your FFFC a few weeks ago how you didn't want to gain the weight back? I hope you got past that.

kelbrian

mattnlinz03:

My confession is I don't understand people that have eating disorders and how they can do something like that to their bodies.  I recently found out that I have ulcerative colitis. I was in the hospital for 9 days, on a liquid diet for over a month and have been on a strict diet since then.  I lost 30 pounds (which I didn't have to lose), was down to 8% body fat, my skin was transparent, my hair was breaking off and falling out.  Overall I was obviously not healthy but not by my doing.  It then occurred to me that people do this to themselves on purpose and it just blows me away.   

I don't understand it either, and I still struggle with an eating disorder, although I used to understand it. It's a compulsion, an addiction, an escape, and by the time you get to the point where your hair is breaking off and falling out and your skin is shiit and all of that other 'lovely' stuff, it's hard to get back out. You are really and truly sick in the mind and in the body.

It's good that you don't understand it. I mean that  

Monkeybuttwhat

kgb1411:

Here's mine:  I want a depo provera dart gun.  If I see you doing something stupid, then I can shoot you with it, and you can't get pregnant for 3 months.  Moving in with your loser ex-boyfriend?  Bam.  Depo dart gun.  Trying cocaine at a party?  Depo dart gun.  Bailing your alcoholic husband out of jail (again)?  You got it.  Depo dart gun. 

   

While the idea is genius. It is dangerous. 

Some AP chick would get one and start shooting people who don't plan to BF and wear their kid like a backpack all day. 

nbjenni

SuperCuteBenz:

jenifairies:

kgb --- good  idea! sign me up (on list of shooters, not shootees).

As for my own - DD woke up at 4:30 this morning (thanks to my DH who thinks his alarm has to be set to "wake the dead"). I'm about to go set up the pnp to block her in the living room so I know there's nothing that can hurt her, turn on nick jr, and go to sleep on the couch. If she lets me. I accidentally fell asleep at 3am up with her last week and she emptied the contents of her bookshelf on me. I'll be waiting on my mother of the year award.

I accidentally fell asleep with DD in the living room about 2 weeks ago. Ours is really child proof ( no furniture besides couch, chair, ottoman), so there wasn't anything for her to get into. However, she did have crayons and proceeded to color all over our tv. Poor DH.

Mom of the Year here. Over Christmas break, I fell asleep on the couch for an hour while the girls watched TV and played in the gated/baby proofed living room. They  knocked the gate down and Audrey went to my bedroom, knocked the books off my shelf, ate a candle, found my BOB and turned him on, threw a few books in the toliet and put lotion on the cat. I only woke up when I heard her beating on my bedroom door because she shut herself in. Of course Natalie was still sitting in her cozy coupe in the living room, watching TV.

Amrice78

mattnlinz03:

ABMcKinney:

Robbie and I were in the car yesterday driving. Someone beeped their horn (not at me) and Robbie yelled "A$$hole!!! I think I need to maybe start watching my mouth.

LOL!  That is pretty funny and I am just waiting for this to happen in my house.

My confession is I don't understand people that have eating disorders and how they can do something like that to their bodies.  I recently found out that I have ulcerative colitis. I was in the hospital for 9 days, on a liquid diet for over a month and have been on a strict diet since then.  I lost 30 pounds (which I didn't have to lose), was down to 8% body fat, my skin was transparent, my hair was breaking off and falling out.  Overall I was obviously not healthy but not by my doing.  It then occurred to me that people do this to themselves on purpose and it just blows me away.   

Not being snarky, but I'll explain how I developed one.  My step-dad called me fat all.the.time as a child.  I mean all the time.  He was also extremely strict about eating (I had dinner for breakfast on more than one occasion).  Anyway, by the time I was in high school and "took control" of my eating.  I could eat what I wanted when I wanted and no one could force me otherwise.  I'm 5'2" and I was 98 pounds at age 22 and I still wouldn't wear a swim suit because I had "thunder thighs".  If I was upset or stressed - I didn't eat.   It's a control thing.

MandC17

swedish-fish:

I judge anyone who considers Fox News a credible news source.

All new sources are biased. It's just the way it works. They tell the side of the story that's benefits their agenda. So I judge anyone that believes every word of any news source. You have to do your research yourself if you want the truth.

Monkeybuttwhat

nbjenni:

bnljane1988:

I judge people who post on here about what DB's or jacka$$es their DH's are.  First - You married him.  Second - you chose to have children with that person.

What does that say about you?

Up until a few weeks ago, everyone thought Tiger Woods was an upstanding guy, good husband and great father. Some people are really good at lying & sneaking. I'm pretty awesome, so I don't worry what you think.

And with that - my divorce could be final by the end of this month. I am so unbelievably happy I could tap dance right now. Would it be totally tacky to make a ticker?

Only if it is tacky of me to make an end of paying alimony ticker  

SuperCuteBenz

mattnlinz03:

ABMcKinney:

Robbie and I were in the car yesterday driving. Someone beeped their horn (not at me) and Robbie yelled "A$$hole!!! I think I need to maybe start watching my mouth.

LOL!  That is pretty funny and I am just waiting for this to happen in my house.

My confession is I don't understand people that have eating disorders and how they can do something like that to their bodies.  I recently found out that I have ulcerative colitis. I was in the hospital for 9 days, on a liquid diet for over a month and have been on a strict diet since then.  I lost 30 pounds (which I didn't have to lose), was down to 8% body fat, my skin was transparent, my hair was breaking off and falling out.  Overall I was obviously not healthy but not by my doing.  It then occurred to me that people do this to themselves on purpose and it just blows me away.   

I think it becomes an obsession. For many people its a control issue. They may have things going on in their life that they can't control and their weight is something they can control.

I don't expect anyone to fully understand until you have been there.