Why do people do it?

shall923

Why do women who have never had a loss go to the M/PL board and post some sh!t that they think all the grieving women will want to read. My favorite is when they title it with sappy or sad. What stupid b!tch thinks the women on that board need another reason to cry. It just makes me so mad. The day of my m/c someone posted about the ladies on this board have amazing strength and blah blah blah all the while with her beautiful baby picture and pg ticker in her sig.

I remember how much it upset me. 

Scout05

I am so incredibly pissed at that post right now and the one below it that I am forcing myself to leave it at what I said and walk away.

The flaming I want to unleash would be ban worthy, I promise you.

Ehoff33

I remember when I was on that board and the second day someone came on there posting how "strong we all are" 

It made me feel so much worse, but someone from this board actually came to our rescue and I got to go off on the person...they may sound horrible but for those few min I actually felt better being mad at someone and telling them... 

klk2klb

I've been doing so well lately.  I've hardly cried and I've been laughing much more...until I read that effing poem.  I cried out lout as if my loss just happened.  My ok day just became sucky and now I want to crawl in a hole.  I'm going to get some wine.

noellemari

I've come to realize that if you've never suffered a loss, you cannot begin to understand what it feels like and have no idea what to say.  It's why even my close friends and family don't always say the right thing....they've never been there.  And I'm not trying to say it's ok for them to do that, I'm just sayin.....they have no clue. 

Sonadora

No idea, but I was just mean to one of them.

Trying to hold off on the "I'm still preg" girl. But damn. 

butterfly843

Both posts kind of upset me, the poem really got to me.

triple_sevens

Wow. That post really pissed me off, and I generally do not get upset like this about FHs, in real life or on the bump. But seriously, the balls of that chick, marching on over to comfort us with her poetry and her sympathy.

I don't know which offends me more, the arrogance of her gesture or the awfulness of the poem.