TTC After a Loss

Lovely Lurkers (and anyone else who wants to play)

Some questions for you to jump in:

How long have you been TTC (I've been doing it since 1200 BC. Ok not really, but I stopped counting after cycle 16)

If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board (I had a chemical pregnancy in september, after over a year of trying. I was really sad and was so happy to find this place. I've made so many friends. I love it here)

What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I did everything. Totally obsessive.

How totally awesome am I? (kidding, you don't have to answer that one!)

 

I promise we're nice (usually) and won't bite. 

 

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Re: Lovely Lurkers (and anyone else who wants to play)

  • ::pouts::

     

    I'm not a lurker....I want to play!!

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • imageSonadora:

    ::pouts::

     

    I'm not a lurker....I want to play!!

    go ahead! play!!!

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  • Hi shell,im not new here, but I will introduce myself to all the new-bees.

    We've been ttc since september of 2009. Had a CP on December 10, 09.

    before this month we didn't do anything special to ttc, just bd.

    This month since that mc made me CRAZY we are opk.

    And you are totally awesome haha

    I also have this loveley medical condition where a part of my colon has dead nerve endings....so I need surgery.....but I can't have surgery until I have kids....which is one of the reasons why we are so eager in ttc.

    hi everyone!!

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  • How long have you been TTC- We did for 8 months before we got pregnant then MC.  we havent started yet, I am still bleeding.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board- Fetus stopped growing at 5 weeks.  Found out at 8. Waited for MC to happen on own.  It didn't.  Had to intravaginally take pills to help MC.  Happened last Tuesday, still bleeding.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I did everything.

    How totally awesome am I? Wonderful for making this for us.

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  • How long have you been TTC We started in January of 2009.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board Had a d&c in May after the NT scan showed severe problems with our first baby at 12 weeks, 2 days; had an early loss at 4 weeks, 3 days in August; and another d&c after our third baby's heart stopped at the end of October at 8 weeks, 3 days.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) E/O/D from the end of AF to start.

    How totally awesome am I? Pretty awesome. But I am not going to tell you so, because you might get a big head.

  • I'm gonna jump in even though I've posted here lots

    How long have you been TTC Please don't throw anything at me... we TTC for 2 months before we got a BFPIf you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I m/c on Christmas (yeah this weekend) at 5w6d. This board is much more upbeat than the m/pl board so I try to stay here so I don't cryWhat do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I have very regular cycles so I just kinda knew when I was going to O and got busy...

    How totally awesome am I? I'm going to go with SO TOTALLY AWESOME! :) 

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    m/c 12/25/09 (5w5d) mm/c D&C 4/9/10 (11w1d) Take home baby 2/22/11
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  • How long have you been TTC I went off BCP July 17, 2009, though we didn't get a chance to try until September since I was OOT for most of August.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I went in for my first ob appointment and they stuck this horrid circa 1970 t/v u/s in me and only saw a small sack/fetal pole and I was supposed to be mid week 7. They sent me to a real u/s place 2 days later and had trouble distinguishing my h/b from the baby's and it was much smaller than it should be. 8 days later the h/b was up, but it hadn't grown but 2 days worth in that time. 10 days later and the h/b was gone. And here I be.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) Well we are still TTA. 

    How totally awesome am I? Completely.

    BFP #1 9/23/09. Missed MC 10w3d D&C 11/3/09.

    BFP #2 4/13/10. Bridget born 12/28/10

    BFP #3 Finn born 8/11/15


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  • How long have you been TTC In general we have been trying for baby 2 since April 2009 since our loss it would be when the doc gave us our clearence on 11/20

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I delivered at 22 weeks a stillborn baby girl with potters sequence type III

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I'm making an attempt at temping...I'm not a morning person. Other then that trying to get dh to BD as often as possible

    How totally awesome am I? You're da bomb

  • ...please define lurker.. Is that someone who NEVER posts at all or hardly ever does?? I am a lurker if the latter is true, then I can play :)
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  • Not a lurker, but playing anyways! 
     How long have you been TTC   Off birth control since January 09, actively trying since May or June 09 (I honestly don't remember...weird)
    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board Miscarried 11.28.09 and this board is more active than mc/pl.
    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) All of the above.

    How totally awesome am I? I'm ambivalent. . . . . . . Wink

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  • Thank you for doing this, I've been going back and forth about when to step out of lurk-dom over here and then I saw this post. ;)

    How long have you been TTC officially since last December, although I went off birth control July/August '08.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board We miscarried in Sept. at 6 weeks 5 days, and it seemed like a natural step from the M/PL board.  In addition to that, I just don't feel as comfortable on GP anymore (my *home* board for many months).

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I chart, used the saliva microscope (nifty, but a pain sometimes), OPKs (waste of money for me), and now I get to use Clomid and IUIs. ;)

    How totally awesome am I? Well, from what I've seen over the past few months, I'll vote pretty awesome. :D

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    How long have you been TTC Since May 2009

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I found out I had a missed miscarriage in October, I was completely floored, brought me out of lurking to start posting on MC/PL. I found them so supportive, but soon after I began wanting to TTC again, and so I progressed to posting over here.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I use OPK's, drink pom juice, have sex alot, try not to stand up too much, make husband do dishes (I swear, that's the key) wear sexy things and give out Bj's till my neck breaks. That's how I roll..

    How totally awesome am I? On a scale of 1-10, ten being Most Awesome, I put you at a 9.5. Wink

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    ...please define lurker.. Is that someone who NEVER posts at all or hardly ever does?? I am a lurker if the latter is true, then I can play :)

    I don't really recognize you, so PLAY!!!!!

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  • How long have you been TTC: Since our loss in March. 

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board:  I was reeling during my loss in March. . . we had to wait a few days between the ER visit and the loss.  I found the board then and started reading/lurking immediately.  I wasn't ready to post until June, but got my BFP just days after activating my account and new better than to :beep beep:.  I kept quiet until we discovered no fetus at my 8 w appointment. . . then I began posting on mc/pl.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) Everything.  I've charted to avoid for years, so I kept charting.  When I entered the EAGeR study in August, I began using a fertility monitor as well.

    How totally awesome am I? The awesomest.  I mean, you know me, so that sort of ups your street cred. 

  • imageShellShockedMama:

    Here's the scoop on me!

    How long have you been TTC - Off BCP June 2009, BFP 9/6/09, D&E 10/16/09, first AF after that 11/26/09 and now trying again.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board - I guess the previous answers this too.  But I have to say I love this board because I know I am not crazy and not alone.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I do nothing.  I did buy a BBT and some OPKs in case I want to start getting obsessive!

    How totally awesome am I? And you seem  totally awesome to me!

     

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  • How long have you been TTC Got our BFP on cycle 2 of TTC in August 09.  Lost baby bean in November.  Actively TTC again starting....yesterday.
     

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board Found out we had lost our baby November 25th & had a D&C the same day.  We were supposed to be having our big ultrasound & announcing the gender the next day (Thanksgiving).  Worst day/week/month ever.  This board has been my rock since about 1 wk post op.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I have sex....about 4 times a week.  We've never had any trouble get ku (:::knocks on wood:::), so we'll stick with that for now.

    How totally awesome am I? You're super awesome :)

    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  •  Hello, I do post just not as often as some...so here goes:

    How long have you been TTC  - We've been TTC # 2 since December 08.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board  - The CP in feb 09 didn't bring me over. I didn't find you gals until after the MC in April 09. Unfortunatly, I only had a brief stay on SAL before returning back here.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo)  - I used to just track CM (fairly accuratly - 4 pregnancys) but now I have cycle monitoring from the RE so  I have u/s and b/w to track all that fun stuff too. 

    How totally awesome am I? Shell, you are totally awesome :)

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  • How long have you been TTC Off BCP since June 08 and winging it, but really started in Oct. 08.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board M/C in August, got pregnant again, and then chemical pregnancy last month.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) OPKs. I tried temping, but that didn't last too long. I do keep a chart though!

    How totally awesome am I? Completely and totally!

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  • How long have you been TTC We started really trying after our first loss, Sept of 2007.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I found the mc/pl board after my first loss - before there was SAL of TTCAL. Then took a bump hiatus for a year and a half until we got KU again in Jan 2009. Posted on PgAL/SAL until we lost that one at 14wks. Had a major family crisis this spring/early summer. Then got a BFP again in July, lost that one at 5wks. And made my way to TTCAL because I needed the contact and friendship

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I chart, and have delved into OPTs.

    How totally awesome am I? Totally awesome. Like, you make my day twenty times a day just by being here. :-)

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  • How long have you been TTC Dh and I have been trying since we got married in march 2003. We had crappy insurance then and until we got better insurance a few years ago we didn't get to see a specialist. We have unexplained infertility. Did 3 iui's that didnt work and the second ivf resulted in twins that we lost at 19 weeks due to an incompentant cervix.

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I started on the miscarriage board after my loss and someone posted how great this board was so I started checking it out since we hope it doesn't take as long to get pregnant this time.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) I used to chart, but now just do opk's. With the ivf cycles I had so much bloodwork and ultrasounds I stopped charting because they monitored my cycle for me.

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  • I've been around for awhile, but I don't have nearly as much time to post as I would like, so here goes. 

     How long have you been TTC March 2009

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I had an early loss this summer.  I found this board by accident (I was originally trying to get to TTC after 35 which is right below this one in the board list) but once I read a few posts I was hooked since it is so lively and fun here.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) Just timing, but am going to try Opks this cycle.

    How totally awesome am I? Pretty damned awesome!  I have bookmarked your blog and was just checking some stuff out this morning.Big Smile

  • About Me

    How long have you been TTC: We have been TTC since our wedding Sept 13,  2008

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board: Had a natural mc Sept 14,  2009.

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo):  I will try anything that I have heard works:  opk,  green tea,  charting, pineapple, timed BD  etc, etc, etc.  Obsessive?  I think so!

    How totally awesome am I? You seem pretty awsome, and humorous too.

    SAIFW TTC 3 years natural m/c 9-14-09 6w 6d, cp 02-10 Low ovarian reserve, poor responder to meds Starting IVF 10-17-11
  • How long have you been TTC Off BC in April 2009If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board MC in week 9... I started bleeding while at a relative's rehearsal dinner... anyhoo, baby stopped developing at 5 weeksWhat do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo) OPKs and chartingHow totally awesome am I? I have definitely referred to your FAQ page multiple times - thank you for putting that together!
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  • How long have you been TTC I stopped using BC in June of 2008 which was 9 months after my c/s.  We started TTC in August 2008

    If you feel comfortable sharing, how did you come to be on this board I got my bfp for #2 in April, 2009.  At my 12 week appt, there was no heartbeat.  I got my next bfp on November 12.  I started spotting a week later and 2 weeks after that I ended up in the ER for an ectopic rupture (I didn't know at the time).  So here I am with 1 tube and no baby. 

    What do you do for TTC (chart? Opks? a combo)   Any and every thing you can think of

    How totally awesome am I? you seem like a great person.  Best of luck to you

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