a Poll for Lurkers!

ShellShockedMama

Why do you lurk here?
[Poll]

Scout05

Wow, I didn't think anyone would even answer. Good poll, Shell.

Though I, too, would like to know the answer to #2.

denise_m

As a former lurker I know my reason was that the board seemed so close knit, I felt kinda like invading in on a club by posting. 

 

Then I got over it lol

sweetbossom83

denise_m:

As a former lurker I know my reason was that the board seemed so close knit, I felt kinda like invading in on a club by posting. 

 

Then I got over it lol

Me too! exactly that. before, now I post every now and then.. I don't wanna say something stupid

Scout05

sweetbossom83:

denise_m:

As a former lurker I know my reason was that the board seemed so close knit, I felt kinda like invading in on a club by posting. 

 

Then I got over it lol

Me too! exactly that. before, now I post every now and then.. I don't wanna say something stupid

Yeah, because I NEVER say anything stupid

 

BeachCole

sweetbossom83:

denise_m:

As a former lurker I know my reason was that the board seemed so close knit, I felt kinda like invading in on a club by posting.?

?

Then I got over it lol

Me too! exactly that. before, now I post every now and then.. I don't wanna say something stupid

I feel like this too! I've been trying to jump in more lately, though.

WearingRed

Hay I feel left out I am a Lurker now but because I always feel like I might hurt someone's feeling with my KUness.

vsackett1

I am still trying to get over some snarkiness and bullies that were WAY out of line (not on this board though, but for some reason now I am scared to post ANYWHERE) But this board is great, but still I am so scared to offend anyone on accident or get snarkies back now

klk2klb

vsackett1:

I am still trying to get over some snarkiness and bullies that were WAY out of line (not on this board though, but for some reason now I am scared to post ANYWHERE) But this board is great, but still I am so scared to offend anyone on accident or get snarkies back now

Please don't be afraid to post!  People here don't really bite too hard.  We're all here to help each other.

Orchard27

I had an early loss in September and I have been super awkward in my attempts at posting.  I always seem to chicken out and opt for a lame, but totally heartfelt, "Congrats" or "Great News" or "I'm so sorry".  Though I mean those things, they don't really help in the way of getting to know people. 

klk2klb

Orchard27:

I had an early loss in September and I have been super awkward in my attempts at posting.  I always seem to chicken out and opt for a lame, but totally heartfelt, "Congrats" or "Great News" or "I'm so sorry".  Though I mean those things, they don't really help in the way of getting to know people. 

I still feel akward sometimes but I figure most people either have felt or do feel the same way.  You are definitely welcome to post.

LoveBeingAWife33008

I enjoy the answers to the questions about our losses others ask but there are not too many of these-or as many as I would like to read.

It seems like many people are friends, and that is wonderful, but I have nothing to say in your conversations. 

I also dont think people want to know about my meaningless days.

ShellShockedMama

LoveBeingAWife33008:

I enjoy the answers to the questions about our losses others ask but there are not too many of these-or as many as I would like to read.

It seems like many people are friends, and that is wonderful, but I have nothing to say in your conversations. 

I also dont think people want to know about my meaningless days.

Did you SEE my three posts about iTunes? it's not exactly mind stimulating stuff! just post, I promise we'll respond I was a newbie person once also and forced people to like me. 

darkskyy

scared to post sort of covers it...

i do post a tiny bit on mc/pl, but i'm not quite ready to be here.  i guess im using you guys to drum of my courage to ttc again

 I was also always so insistant on not telling anyone we were ttc or that we got a bfp till after 1st tri, so Ii feel a little funny now talking about it so openly here.