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roxyttandme

Hi hun....

I hope you are doing well.

I went on a girl's night out last night from the local board. The two ladies that have had 2nd tri losses were there. I told them about you and how the four of us should get together and they very much want to meet you! Typically, we just go to one of our houses, drink some wine and talk about the complexities of our losses, our feelings, our fears and generally vent. We also laugh and chat about just random crap - so, it really isn't a total downer,  I promise. It is sort of a local support group for me. They are very warm and very inviting and has been very healing for me.

So.     The next time we get together, we would like to invite you to join us. If it makes you more comfortable, we can always meet up ahead of time - so you don't feel like you are walking into a room w/ a small group of complete strangers. I started meetin up w/ them about 2 months after we lost Haleigh and I much like this board - I found it so comforting to not have to explain why I have such emotions... or why it still hurts so much. These ladies just get it.

Let me know if you are still game. It would be wonderful to meet you...

~Elizabeth

denise_m

Thank you so much, that is incredibly sweet and kind.  I would love to join you all, so please let me know

roxyttandme

Great! It will be so good to have you w/ us. I will let you know when we get together. It will probably be sometime in Jan. Are there specific times or days that work best for you? It is normally an evening event since two of us work full time.

denise_m

The only day that is really hard for me is Wednesday, that's my do everything day lol and I'm out of the house for 12-14 hours and exhausted.  Other than that, I'm totally open really