TTC After a Loss

Going through dd's nwbrn clothes......(dd mentioned)

I started cleaning out dd's room this morning. I had kept a box of my "favs" out b4 my loss (in hopes of another summer baby girl). I had forgotten about that box. I realized this morning that in order for another baby girl to be able to wear them that I'd have to not get ku for another 9 months or so----and I'm trying to think positive and tell myself that I'll be ku by then......

Just makes me sad to realize that if I did have another little girl, odds are she'd not be able to wear any of my favorites of Ava's.................then again, I'm one of those dorky moms that will love having matching clothes for my kids............

Anywho..........I just want someone to tell me that I won't have to try for another 8 cycles to get a bfp (although I know that none of u are God and can actually "know" the answer to this)----I'm already down 8 cycles and I'm scared crapless that it may take that much longer.......

Re: Going through dd's nwbrn clothes......(dd mentioned)

  • i understand completely. i was so hoping to be KU over the last few months or even this month so that if we did have another boy he could wear some of DS's clothes.  i had washed all DS's clothes and had them ready to go since Wyatt was going to be born in the same month as Nathan.  what a knife through the heart i had to repack everything and store it away. 

    here's to hoping we both get a bfp soon and we'll get to buy all new clothes.

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic 8.15.07 NATHAN 6.13.09 - 6.14.09 WYATT born 32w3d Gone too soon, RIP. 4.21.10 BFP - missed m/c - D&C on 5.27.10. 1.31.11 BFP - 1st cycle IUI + Follistim + Trigger (2 mature follies)Beta 1 @ 13dpiui: 199 Beta 2 @ 15dpiui: 527 10.7.11 ELIANA(Ellie)ROSE (39w3d)Team Green turned Team Pink - VBAC & ALL NATURAL 6lbs 11oz 19 &1/2in
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  • You need to stay positive...don't think about how long it might take...concentrate on making it happen as soon as possible.  And think of all of the cute matching outfits you will be able to buy!!!  2010 is the year!!!   
  • First off, congrats on a "normal" cycle - especially after your accident.  That's awesome!

    Secondly, I hope and pray that you will be KU this month and won't have to venture down that road of wondering if it will happen before the leaves start to change color.

    And think of all the new cute things you can buy!! 

  • I feel your pain.  I had a feeling the last baby was a boy, and our due date was 1 month before Connor's birthday.  I was so excited to pull out all of those barely worn newborn clothes again.  Now I hope that the next baby doesn't have a chance to wear them....otherwise that means we wouldn't be pregnant for 7-8 months. 
    Connor Thomas 6/6/08. Discovered missed miscarriage at 17 wks 3 days, D&C 11/25/09. Please, please, please - BFP 5/21/11, EDD 2/1/11. Beta@12DPO=52, Beta@14DPO=158. U/S 7/7/11 shows strong baby measuring a couple days ahead!!! Pregnancy Ticker
  • imageschen0510:
    You need to stay positive...don't think about how long it might take...concentrate on making it happen as soon as possible.  And think of all of the cute matching outfits you will be able to buy!!!  2010 is the year!!!   

    THIS! Stay positive girl!

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