Ok so this may be a stupid question but I think about it a lot and have no idea what people usually do. What do you plan to do with your dog(s) when you go in to labor. I mean our dogs are usually crated when we're not home (b/c they're boxers and are crazy). What is everyone planning to do when they go in to have the baby? I figure most of my family will be more concerned w/ me and the baby than actually going to take care of the dogs. Also you don't really know how long you're going to be in the hospital based on how things go, etc. What are you all going to do?
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DD1 born 5/24/10.
Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.
DD2 born 5/14/13.
Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.
Wow! I thought about the same thing because my little guy (Pek-a-chon) is my first born - haha. So I was very concerned. Luckily for us we are going to be passing him over to my mother-in-law while I am in the hospital. However, I am concerned that if I go into delivery suddenly he may be there alone for a bit. I would see if some of your family is willing to take them on a for a couple of days. That way your significant other doesn't have to run home and let them out, worry about feeding them, etc.
My biggest concern is how my dog is going to handle being around a new born! Yikes!!!
We have a boxer too!
My mother is near by so hopefully she can do it. Like others have said they are our first born so of course I stress about them...and mine are just so dang needy. Maybe I should start focusing on how they will re-act to baby instead of if they'll be getting enough love while I'm in the hospital, ha. Thanks for the input everyone!
We were really worried about this too because our little guy is our first spoiled one!
Anyway, DH's best friend always stays at our house when we vacation, so he is planning to stay here when we have the baby. If I go into labor suddenly, then we can have our neighbor let him out until DH's best friend can start staying at our house.
My DH will come home a few times though to bring things that smell like the baby - a little hat or blanket or something, so we can work on helping our dog adjust by the time we all get home. I am sure it will be a huge adjustment no matter what!
When we need to board our dogs or just get them out of the house for the day, we take them to a doggie daycare that they LOVE. We plan to have a standing arrangement with the daycare so that we can drop them off for a few days once I go into labor. Our dogs look at it as a treat--they get to play the entire time they are there, except at night, and the people there are great. Plus, when they get home, not only have they been bathed, but they sleep for days on end. That might make the transition a little easier for them--maybe they'll be too tired to care!
My only fear is that the baby will come a couple of weeks late and I'll go into labor over the 4th of July holiday, in which case the doggie daycare may be full. But like I said, we plan to have a standing arrangement with them.
my dad lives 3 blocks away from me, so i'm sure he'll come over and let out his granddoggies.
our only concern is how our beagle will handle the baby. he's definately a mama's boy, and i have a feeling he's not gonna like not having all the attention anymore!
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Generally if everything goes as planned, plan on bein in the hospital for 2 days. Chances are, everything will be fine.
We haven't really thought much about it. It's hard to plan ahead since you don't know exactly when you'll go into labor so you can't plan to drop the dog off with someone.
We'll probably put ours in the crate (as long as we both remember to lock it in our hurried state, lol!) & then DH might call someone to go over to take him to their place or watch him. He's use to being in his crate while we're at work but labor usually takes longer than that!!!
We are still debating about what to do. We orginally asked some friends, but we are wondering if it would be better if we asked my parents. My parents live out of town so when we give them the call they could come up and house/dog sit while i'm at the hospital. Only thing though we would kick them out once I get discharged (I know, kinda mean, but we want our alone time as a family)....we don't want company staying with us and we lost our guest bedroom since it is LO's bedroom. IL's are in town so that could also be an option to let the dogs out....maybe we will get several volunteers and put everybody on a schedule so it isn't up to one person.
My mom came by a few times a day and let him out & fed him when I was in the hospital with DS.
This time he will go to my parents house with DS. DS will be more comfortable having him there & it will be less work for my parents.
Our dog is not crated because all he does is sleep and wake only to bark at the mailman. We have a close friend who lives one street over from us and with DD she volunteered to come by and walk the dog. DH only spent the first night in the hospital (DD was born at 1:41AM) and our friend walked him that morning and that afternoon. The other two nights DH stayed at home so he could walk/feed the dog in the morning and at night and my neighbor only had to walk him in the afternoon. Since he is used to being home alone all day when we are at work it was really no different than that. I don't know if our friend will volunteer again because I don't think she thought she would have to walk him every afternoon while we were in the hospital, just the once while we were in labor, but if not he does have a doggie day care he now goes to so we may make arrangements with them since they also offer a dog walking service.
This time around I am more worried about what we are going to do with DD, since last time I had such a fast labor I had to leave for the hospital as soon as I called in, but with the dog I didn't have to wait for someone to come over and watch him.
My ex is going to take care of Chloe while I am in the hospital. She used to be ours and when we broke up, I took her. She knows him and she will be fine with him.
Haven't even thought about this, but our neighbors will be more than happy to help us out.