Not sure where to post but need help.

vegbear@yahoo.com

We have had a number of complications with this pregnancy-

8w u/s-showed small sac-

10w u/s-small sac but baby growing and on target for 10 weeks

12w NT scan-NT fine-blood work 1 in 5 chance of Downs I was also told that I had a low Papp A protein and high HcG-which showed poor pregnancy outcome

had CVS-we were given the all clear found out its a boy

Went in today for my 18w anatomy u/s and was told that everything on our baby is growing normally EXCEPT his long bones in his arms and legs are measuring at 16.5 weeks instead of 18 and his penis is "very abnormal"  they do not think hermaphrodite as the chormosones (sp?) dont match with that illness-but they do think our son has some genetic issues-as in a 50/50 chance-they want me to have an amnio done--but really is there a point?? and when I ask what issue this could be I get everything from dwarfism to things I can barely pronounce nor understand fully.

 I am asking you mamas if any of you know of anyone who has been through this or if you have gone through this and what I should do about it? I feel more tests won't show me anything conclusive anyway so I don't want to bother--BUT if my child has issues I would like to know so we can prepare..

 Any insight??

TIA

Brenda 

nycnola

I'm no help, but my t&p are with you and your baby.

nooniesgal

Brenda,  I am so sorry you are going through this.  I don't have any wisdom on the conditions you posted but just wanted to say that your little one is definitely in my thoughts and prayers.  It sounds like you have been through a rollercoaster ride.  I truly hope you get the answers you are looking for.  

grace416

T&P for a healthy baby! Miracles do happen!

secretmemories13

Im so so sorry for what your going through. I wish I could help or give you answers.... T&P for a healthy LO....

numeria11

You mentioned they want you to have an amnio done.  From my understanding Amnio's are very conclusive as to their results (as in 99.5% per my doc) on what is wrong with most issues.  Did they tell you if they would be able to detect what issues it might be if they ran the test or did they say if it would still be inconclusive?  If they arent going to be able to give you answers even with the amnio then no I wouldnt go through with it but if this is the only way to get answers on what is going on I would go ahead and at least put your mind at ease or be able to prepare for whatever is happening.  I would say give your doc a call tomorrow and talk to them about your options for diagonosis further.  Good luck and t&p.

Carmela752

I'm sorry you're going through this.

I don't have any specifics, but I think the testing is a good idea. If you know what's wrong, or know more about what's wrong, you can make sure you are delivering in a high enough level hospital that will be able to care for his needs, and that the appropriate specialists would be present if needed. It could also dictate whether you were delivered early, or whether you were to deliver vaginally or via c section.

I hope you start getting some better news soon.

DreamsBride411

At this point, I would definitely opt for further testing... an educated mind is a prepared one, so what's the harm?  

My T & P are with you and your family.  I hope everything works out for the best.

MWoodside

I think dwarfism can't be confirmed until at least 6 mo after birth.

Jasmine1082

My T&P are with you, I know how awful it feels to hear something could be wrong.
A note on the size, my Dr. said at this point the error of margin in measurements can be off by up to 2 weeks, so hes within that range. Not sure what they meant by abnormal, but maybe the cord was in the way or something?
GL again sorry you are going through this!