I can't seem to find any time to BD. :o(

Jenny102783

I had some creamy CM yesterday and today so I am hoping I am getting closer to ovulating. I also have some lower back pain tonight. Anyways, we can't seem to find time to BD. I definitely wanted to tonight but I promised my girlfriend I'd go shopping with her and by the time I got home, DH had to leave for a 11:00 p.m. hockey game. I tried to squeeze in a quickie but DH wasn't feeling it. UGH! If it isn't one thing, it is another. Getting KU is freakin' difficult! Anyone else having this problem?!

Court1

Do you guys ever do it in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning?  When our ds was a baby that was sometimes the only time we have....and I enjoy the am bd.

Jenny102783

Court1:

Do you guys ever do it in the middle of the night or first thing in the morning?  When our ds was a baby that was sometimes the only time we have....and I enjoy the am bd.

Never in the middle of the night. I am a total grump if DH wakes me up. We do in the AM on weekends but never during the work week. I am hoping DH catches a second wind at his hockey game.

denise_m

I am a HUGE fan morning sex.

sevenonesix

Surprise him when he comes home. Throw on some cute undies/lingerie and light a few candles. My DH can't resist that scene. 

 

But I have found myself in the same situation. Or, when he's in the mood. i'm not. and vice versa. its been really hard lately to force myself to BD just for the sake of getting KU. Sometimes it takes the fun out of it. That's why I bring out the sexy shenanigans! GL 

Jillwithani

Yes! We work opposite schedules and its more work than it is play. If we didn't make a LO this cycle I'm going to invest in some cuffs to keep him from going to work.

lindsay.lou

I don't want to hear it - there's ALWAYS time.

10-15 minutes? Do it whenever!

(I always LOVED middle of the night sex, we haven't done that in YEARS)

dondraandluis

I hope you guys get a chance soon! Maybe you can get him when he gets home?!

KristinaA620

I had the same problem tonight! Between MH getting home at 6, going to the gym until 7, dinner at 8, bills, and cleaning, we ran out of time and ENERGY! We are doing every other day and it seems to get harder each week. Plus, the "waiting" and wondering doesn't help at all!

KristinaA620

Oh, I had to add that we did make time and find the energy!! LOL! Nothing is worth losing baby making chances!!

Heidisean

Sex week is scheduled sex. We either have sex at night or 1st thing in the AM even though I HATE morning bd'ing. You have to schedule time and find it to make that baby that you want. On a side note...did you just mc 2 weeks ago (I see that in your ticker)? Are you OK to start to ttc again soo soon? GL

Jenny102783

Heidisean:

Sex week is scheduled sex. We either have sex at night or 1st thing in the AM even though I HATE morning bd'ing. You have to schedule time and find it to make that baby that you want. On a side note...did you just mc 2 weeks ago (I see that in your ticker)? Are you OK to start to ttc again soo soon? GL

Very true! I miscarried three weeks ago tomorrow. My doctor gave me the green light since my levels were so low (and dropped incredibly fast) and I didn't need a D&C.