c-section...(vent)

mdearrington

Why do people think it is okay to say,"OH! I HATE it when girls have a c-section on their first pregnancy?" Would it be so wrong to reply with, "I hate girls who judge and don't know the reason of why I am having a c-section." It is none of any one's  business why I choose to have one.

The girl who said this hardly knows me. She didn't even know I was pregnant or married till she looked me up on myspace. Who the hell is she to tell me I am making a horrible decision? I am done sharing with people my birth plan. It makes me so mad. Vent over.

Sept_Bride'07

so stop sharing your birth plan?

mdearrington

Sept_Bride'07:

so stop sharing your birth plan?

I am now.

marycrawford

yeah I hear you people are always like you should have a natural birth and definitly breast feed the baby. well it isnt any of your business so good day. I do agree though if you share your birth story you do open yourself up to peoples opinion but there is no reason to be rude.

caseybuchda

As long as you do what's best for the baby (babies in your case) ignore her.

annierific

people are so judgemental. do what you have to do!

LuLu78

Yeah some people judge when I say I'm going straight for the c-section on this second pregnancy. The fact is, I went through hell with the first one, DS was too big and I ended up in a c-section. My dr said I'm not a great candidate for a successful vbac and I have no desire to go through what I did the first time. I don't see why anyone really cares! Some people just love to judge!

gypsywitch

Oh I know! I totally hate when your 1st baby is breech and they make you have a c-sec I should have totlaly tried a breech birth!

   people are fkin @ssholes. And often times, stupid. Tell her to shove it.

RaphSandra2005

People suck.  When I wanted to go med-free with my first, I heard every opinion under the sun.  Some people thought I was being super woman (not my intention, but thanks) and some people thought I was crazy.  I ended up with a ton of interventions and a c-section due to many complications.  This time around, no one understands why I'd even entertain the thought of a VBAC when I could "just have another c-section."  It's such a PITA.